Black Woman: "If we're dating im not paying any bills, not paying for my car, not paying rent"

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And she will do this, but as soon as that contract is signed, she aint gonna do shyt if she doesn't want to.

She knows if you divorce, shyt is a wrap for you. Assuming she knows the laws.

This is why dating a chick who is just regular, chances of things going wrong is less. If she wants the image of family, something is gonna go wrong somewhere.

These people on the video talking about their parents are still little kids. I bet you one of their parents cheated, was depressed, or abusive, these lifestyles of working all day, and cooking all day, cleaning all day, is not realistic. I've seen how people work when no one is looking, and it taught me to be realisitic, and think "would you do that?" A lot of people play a role, it stresses them out, and that opens up the gate to being devilish. If a person expects you to do so much in a 12-16 hour cycle, is a problem down the line.

The people in this video are gonna be in for a rude awakening, because treating your mate like a slave isn't right, I don't care how you feel things should go.

I agree. I prefer relationships with regular chicks myself. I don't have a problem splitting the cleaning and cooking if we're both making similar money.

If I were a millionaire, I would definitely not be the type who tries to turn insta-thots into trophy wives. I'd be looking for wealthy woman so that we can pass on a huge fortune to our children.
 
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And in said contract, if a man is funding a woman's lifestyle, then she needs to fulfill all of her requirements such as cooking, cleaning, and staying in shape. The chick in the video is just looking for a free handout. I would say the exact same thing if it were a woman funding a man's lifestyle as well.


Ok buddy. Look at society. Most women do that already. I've noticed y'all loves to harp about the small subset of women that don't tend to domestic duties and talk about them like ALLL women are like that (or will become like that if given the opportunity. I argue that growing up most women(especially immigrants) are taught domestic duties from their families and end up way more equipped to tend to household than a man.

And lmao at "stay in shape" having children can take a toll on most women's bodies but that's neither here nor there.


And this woman is looking for a "free handout" but the way society functions allows this woman to not only think like this but get what she asks for. There's an old adage: Don't hate the player hate the game.

I am not excusing the women's behaviour I just wanted to give an insight as to where this mindset comes from.
 

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Ok buddy. Look at society. Most women do that already. I've noticed y'all loves to harp about the small subset of women that don't tend to domestic duties and talk about them like ALLL women are like that (or will become like that if given the opportunity. I argue that growing up most women(especially immigrants) are taught domestic duties from their families and end up way more equipped to tend to household than a man.

And lmao at "stay in shape" having children can take a toll on most women's bodies but that's neither here nor there.


And this woman is looking for a "free handout" but the way society functions allows this woman to not only think like this but get what she asks for. There's an old adage: Don't hate the player hate the game.

I am not excusing the women's behaviour I just wanted to give an insight as to where this mindset comes from.
Nah, most women don't do that, I don't care where they come from i grew up with both immigrants, and Americans. Older women tend to keep a house clean, but not women 45 & under, they just clean up when you come over, although that isn't all women, but its not a small amount either. Yeah, they may stuff clothes away, but that isn't cleaning up to me. And the more stuff she buys, the less she cleans up, unless she isn't home much. Career women keep a clean house because she works all the time, and lives alone, from my experience. Even then they still have hair all over the place, and shyt all out of order, you find this out when they don't expect you to come over!

And women being able to get away with the "free handout", is what made them lazy or ego maniacs, but this is what makes this the perfect time for a man. Because she thinks she can be super woman, you can use it to your advantage, just don't marry her or have kids with her. It's the chick who knows she's human, that you settle down with.
 
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Nah, most women don't do that, I don't care where they come from i grew up with both immigrants, and Americans. Older women tend to keep a house clean, but not women 45 & under, they just clean up when you come over, although that isn't all women, but its not a small amount either. Yeah, they may stuff clothes away, but that isn't cleaning up to me. And the more stuff she buys, the less she cleans up, unless she isn't home much. Career women keep a clean house because she works all the time, and lives alone, from my experience

And women being able to get away with the "free handout", is what made them lazy or ego maniacs, but this is what makes this the perfect time for a man. Because she thinks she can be super woman, you can use it to your advantage, just don't marry her or have kids with her. It's the chick who knows she's human, that you settle down with.


So you think the older women who keep the house clean arent teaching their daughters the same?

The more stuff she buys the less she cleans up ????? Lmao ok.


Mmkay continue to go down a slippery slope of fallacies. IM done.

Loooool @ your reply in general. I am stating facts and you are just stating random nonsense that doesn't have much to do with my original point. (From what you've seen doesn't represent all women at all).

"It's a chick who knows she's human"

You can't be serious.
 

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So you think the older women who keep the house clean arent teaching their daughters the same?

The more stuff she buys the less she cleans up ????? Lmao ok.


Mmkay continue to go down a slippery slope of fallacies. IM done.

Loooool @ your reply in general. I am stating facts and you are just stating random nonsense that doesn't have much to do with my original point. (From what you've seen doesn't represent all women at all).

"It's a chick who knows she's human"

You can't be serious.
Of course she is teaching her daughter, but that doesn't mean he daughter will do it. I'm telling you what I've seen for decades

Yes, the more stuff she buys, I notice they tend to clean up less. A lot of women tend to be hoarders, and end up with so much stuff it stresses them out, so they just tuck the shyt away into closets or basements if she has a house. You may not want to hear it, just like I didn't until life taught me, but its the truth.

You call your statements facts, just like I call my statements facts. it is what it is

You know what I meant by posting "It's a chick who knows she's human", but maybe you didn't. My point was when I dealt with chicks who thought she was gonna build an Empire, cook fresh meals, keep the house clean, and keep a smile on her face, those chicks ended up being nothing but stress. It was the chicks who knew they couldn't do everything, that were less stressful, thus, knew they were human!

You have to be young, because I remember when it wasn't like this, but sometime in the mid 90's, women started thinking they could do everything, and it sounded good in the beginning, but as a man dealing with this type of chick seriously, HEADACHE!
 

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a lot of women used to hit a lick by marring a man with a good job:nku324:

she would then take her time and focus it on the family

a stay at home mom does many vital functions for the family unit:salute:

Imagine if you spent 8 hours a day getting ya family right:blessed:

i have been impressed by a couple of dudes i know wives

and you can see a difference in the children :obama:

some how women were convinced that shyt was bullshyt

know they taking a 1 hour commute every morning

to deal with a bunch of azzholes at her job for 8 hours:mjcry:

only to come home to no man no children and they still gotta clean they fuking house and do laundry:mjlol:

I watch women tap the fuk out all the time at my job:jbhmm:

about 27 or 28 they say fuk this working shyt and get married

as soon as that first baby comes they ain't never going to work another day in they life:banderas:
 

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i know you know how fukk'n funny this is, don't chu....

chu motherfukker...my side hurt so bad, zero for this.
fukk chu bro....my side hurt, real real bad.
i can't stop lol'n...
why chu did this, breh...
you don't really fukk'n fukked't cha boi up with this.

i may lol to death,.......


art barr

*is in pain lol...i can't stop...this shyt so stoopid funny...
 

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this is one of those panels..
where minister jap needs to be called in to knock this bullshyt out.
on some contracted house speaker shyt.



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like you gotta call a nikka in, who consistently has been on video taking out this type of level of bullshyt daily.


him and angry man need to be on deck for shyt like this.


art barr
 

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woman with that kind of movement usually have fathers who played this role so they naturally grasp to man with said foundation or they themselves already have the key elements that a man of his stature will see.

That's why it's very common for many STEM folks to marry other stem folks. Those man or woman can feel or see the natural way someone whose a "fill in the blank" moves and either they are equally able to deal with the person because of similar lifestyle, their pay can be different but their energy are the same*

Blond weave chick clearly isn't formatted to probably even to identify a man with money or good stature that'll bring in what she is asking for. And if she does find that man, she wouldn't have any contexts on how to approach or get him to approach her. Wealthy man usually are looking for things in their partner that resemble something that is present in themselves, that's what these type of woman don't understand. The man who'll do all the things she wants and more, do go after woman like her but only for sexual relationships or part time girlfriend. She'll always end up letting him know indirectly she doesn't measure up and he is a pinnacle

That's the fear successful woman use all the time with man who aren't in that position (this runs both ways actually). When you become something you ooze who you are with your energy and movement, a common man or woman who don't measure up to that point will become clueless on what they can offer you at the moment that'll work.
Honestly, these types have dated providers like drug dealers. The problem is, those are targeted for incarceration and they also only last till early adulthood so while what BP said makes sense for a full grown adult, a lot of these girls who make statements had these options in the past and still want it today.
 

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Why would a man pay for everything, but the turn around and say he wants to leave a legacy?:gucci:

You aint leaving shyt in this economy if you are paying everything, but debt, or hopefully a house

As a man you aint gonna have no life, and just be a damn slave. The guy who said he's Nigerian so its part of his pride, he must of forgot pride comes before the fall:deadmanny:

These people are delusional. They want to act like money makers, but think like broke people who watch too much tv. This isn't the 60's70's,80', or 90's, shyt done changed!
For Black people, this was never done in the 60s 70s, 80s and clearly not the 90s
 
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