Black Woman: "If we're dating im not paying any bills, not paying for my car, not paying rent"

[MaxPain]

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Traditional societies

 

[therewillbeboogienights]

But that isn't necessarily true anymore

The problem is things have changed, but people are still looking at old media, or older elders, which is influencing their thinking. This is why we have problems with each other as genders, no one is being honest with the times they are living in, this creates confusion, and stress.

As a man, if you follow ways that don't work anymore, you are a fool! This is actually the best times for a man who doesn't want to work to the day he dies, and live life. Women work, they give up sex before marriage, you have more big boy toys for yourself because of technology, and more that I'm forgetting. The guys who keep talking about their fathers or older men, they keep ignoring how sad these men are/were. All they know is working, and giving that money up for other people, and then the mother gets most of the praise a lot of the times, but they do this because they had no choice if they wanted sex! It's not like that any more, so you act accordingly.

Damn BB u wrote a full on paragraph for a typo. I accidently pressed post reply before I said my whole point.

 

[Jamal514]

These women think just bringing p*ssy and headache to the table is enough .

If I'm paying all her bills these are my conditions for her

- The house be spotlessly clean 24/7/365

- Dinner be ready when I get home and it should taste good enough to even impress Gordon Ramsay.

- No nagging over nonsense

- Be in the gym at least 4 days a week and eat a clean balanced diet with lots of leafy greens. Being fat is a big

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Broads have nothing to offer but p*ssy expecting dudes to treat them like a prized queen

Sad thing it's simps paying these loser bytches bills too

 

[truth2you]

Damn BB u wrote a full on paragraph for a typo. I accidently pressed post reply before I said my whole point.

I agree with your edit

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Remember when women do that provider shaming and talk about pseudo traditional shyt.. men got actual tangible things out of relationships. Not just “companionship”.

Do she got any land or inheritance? A business? At least a bag of tools? Any assets she’s afraid to lose? Connections for my career?

Can’t be picking and choosing that “traditional” shyt. These chicks just wanna get money for doing nothing and having nothing. If I’m paying them bills, you are giving me something more than companionship.

Facts.
All she goin do is smoke all the weed and im expected to pay for shyt and choices I had no involvement in? Gtfoh.

Then she tried that old azz real man diss.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Those bytches should choose a pimp because that marriage shyt will never work out for them.

A lot of females these days want to prostitute under the guise of marriage or the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Game is needed now more than ever fellas.

They can't afford to choose.
Be serious.

 

[B86]

I could be a billionaire and the bytch is still paying her own car payment, rent, bills, all that shyt, unless we are married; and even then she still gotta pull her weight.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

But that isn't necessarily true anymore

The problem is things have changed, but people are still looking at old media, or older elders, which is influencing their thinking. This is why we have problems with each other as genders, no one is being honest with the times they are living in, this creates confusion, and stress.

As a man, if you follow ways that don't work anymore, you are a fool! This is actually the best times for a man who doesn't want to work to the day he dies, and live life. Women work, they give up sex before marriage, you have more big boy toys for yourself because of technology, and more that I'm forgetting. The guys who keep talking about their fathers or older men, they keep ignoring how sad these men are/were. All they know is working, and giving that money up for other people, and then the mother gets most of the praise a lot of the times, but they do this because they had no choice if they wanted sex! It's not like that any more, so you act accordingly.

The secret people don't realize, is women had men thinking taking care of them made them a real man. Women have so much game that unless you take emotions out of it, you would never see it, and think you are doing what's right, while she secretly knows she has ALL the power. Listen to the women in this video, and peep the game!

Chris Rock goes in-depth about this on his Netflix special “Tambourine”.

 

[truth2you]

If I'm paying all her bills these are my conditions for her

- The house be spotlessly clean 24/7/365

- Dinner be ready when I get home and it should taste good enough to even impress Gordon Ramsay.

- No nagging over nonsense

- Be in the gym at least 4 days a week and eat a clean balanced diet with lots of leafy greens. Being fat is a big

And she will do this, but as soon as that contract is signed, she aint gonna do shyt if she doesn't want to.

She knows if you divorce, shyt is a wrap for you. Assuming she knows the laws.

This is why dating a chick who is just regular, chances of things going wrong is less. If she wants the image of family, something is gonna go wrong somewhere.

These people on the video talking about their parents are still little kids. I bet you one of their parents cheated, was depressed, or abusive, these lifestyles of working all day, and cooking all day, cleaning all day, is not realistic. I've seen how people work when no one is looking, and it taught me to be realisitic, and think "would you do that?" A lot of people play a role, it stresses them out, and that opens up the gate to being devilish. If a person expects you to do so much in a 12-16 hour cycle, is a problem down the line.

The people in this video are gonna be in for a rude awakening, because treating your mate like a slave isn't right, I don't care how you feel things should go.

 

[Jamal514]

Eh in society men are the gatekeepers of resources.

Women enter into contracts with men (officially, as in marriage, or unofficially, as in the case of shacking up situations) as a way of engaging in resource exchange/transaction. This has been happening for as long as human civilization. That's why prostitution is the oldest profession.

Our current society likes to romanticize hetero unions are formed with love at the foundation but the reality is (especially in developing countries) that women will be dependent on their family or living a different (read:worse) lifestyle if they weren't depending on a man to take care of them. That's due to women being barred from most professions (the higher the economic bracket the less women). And don't bring up affirmative action or feminism as an effective rebuttal b/c recent laws can't immeditaely change a system as old as time.

There are women who make more than their male counterparts but the inverse vastly outnumber them.

Olddd habits die hard they say.

And in said contract, if a man is funding a woman's lifestyle, then she needs to fulfill all of her requirements such as cooking, cleaning, and staying in shape. The chick in the video is just looking for a free handout. I would say the exact same thing if it were a woman funding a man's lifestyle as well.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

I dont even want to pay my own car note or rent so why the hell would i pay your shyt? FOH you entitled brat

 

[TaxCollector13459]

And she will do this, but as soon as that contract is signed, she aint gonna do shyt if she doesn't want to.

She knows if you divorce, shyt is a wrap for you. Assuming she knows the laws.

This is why dating a chick who is just regular, chances of things going wrong is less. If she wants the image of family, something is gonna go wrong somewhere.

These people on the video talking about their parents are still little kids. I bet you one of their parents cheated, was depressed, or abusive, these lifestyles of working all day, and cooking all day, cleaning all day, is not realistic. I've seen how people work when no one is looking, and it taught me to be realisitic, and think "would you do that?" A lot of people play a role, it stresses them out, and that opens up the gate to being devilish. If a person expects you to do so much in a 12-16 hour cycle, is a problem down the line.

The people in this video are gonna be in for a rude awakening, because treating your mate like a slave isn't right, I don't care how you feel things should go.

That's why cena made that bytch sign that 75 page contract

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I'm not gonna listen to feminist bytch about men not kissing their ass.

 

[tsuki2]

Have you boyfriend any your bills??? Nah because if he’s short or don’t got it them bill collectors are coming for me not him on some”Where’s my money” and I’m gonna be lookin like with no place to stay, no car or phone. People really need to cut all this playing house mess before they ready to commit, your bills are yours until there’s a conversation and progression in the relationship to something serious (marriage).