Black Woman: "If we're dating im not paying any bills, not paying for my car, not paying rent"

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That's a sugar daddy or an actual daddy

I mean if you want to be treated like a child that's cool, but don't call it a relationship.

I pay for all dates if I'm dating someone, but rent and car notes? What does that have to do with me?

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Women who talk big like this are the ones who take the most shyt from men. Classic overcompensating. Kind of woman probably got a man lving with her right now with no job fukking her roommate the moment shes out

Like a nikka who say yeah I be fukking hoes they better be bad but he ain’t got no hoes:russ::mjlol::francis::mjcry:
 

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They want surgar daddies and there are PLENTY O nikkas that happily fill that space which is why the girls think how they do .... shyt that’s their prerogative... can’t hate the player hate the game :yeshrug:
 

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The white chick knows wshat the deal is at 25:00 and is easily the most dateable/marriage worthy one :no c00n:

No she's not she is the most dishonest and played right into the trick that a lot of man fall for with white woman. She knew exactly what to say after getting a feel of the room but then was in a 6 year and a 4 year (if I heard right) relationship without getting married. Shorty is a red flag who wants to compromise after giving her best years away. The most datable was the sister with the short blond hair because she believed that it should be dependent on the situation at the time and she has a woman naturally would be nurturing to a man. But her vibe screams like something else is attached that you don't want no part in

Married couples should only live together. Any woman living with you whose making a living who doesn't want to contribute to the household payment is not a someone who expects to do anything long term with you brehs. That clearly isn't a woman you should be buying property with, who most likely would have more say in what she'd like in a household.
 
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Of course she is teaching her daughter, but that doesn't mean he daughter will do it. I'm telling you what I've seen for decades

Yes, the more stuff she buys, I notice they tend to clean up less. A lot of women tend to be hoarders, and end up with so much stuff it stresses them out, so they just tuck the shyt away into closets or basements if she has a house. You may not want to hear it, just like I didn't until life taught me, but its the truth.

You call your statements facts, just like I call my statements facts. it is what it is

You know what I meant by posting "It's a chick who knows she's human", but maybe you didn't. My point was when I dealt with chicks who thought she was gonna build an Empire, cook fresh meals, keep the house clean, and keep a smile on her face, those chicks ended up being nothing but stress. It was the chicks who knew they couldn't do everything, that were less stressful, thus, knew they were human!

You have to be young, because I remember when it wasn't like this, but sometime in the mid 90's, women started thinking they could do everything, and it sounded good in the beginning, but as a man dealing with this type of chick seriously, HEADACHE!


Ah I get what you mean now by the that comment, I interpreted differently.
 

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For Black people, this was never done in the 60s 70s, 80s and clearly not the 90s
Nah, it was. The late 80's, is when I started seeing things changing to the point where I didn't hear women talk about getting a man take care of them but they were saying he better play his part. I remember the song "aint nothing going on but the rent" by Gwen Guthrie being their anthem. Listen to that song, and it explains women getting money, and starting to tell men they BETTER play their part. When I used to hear the song, I used to think it was shytting on men who weren't rich, but the older I got, I understood it. But the mid 90's that turned into these chicks turning into divas, and just being in fantasy land, Lil Kim, and Foxy Brown were the epitome of this. The music really expressed what was going on back in the day.


Before that(early 80' and before), from what older women, and men, tell me, it was about getting married, and having a man take care of you, that doesn't mean they didn't work, but the man did take care of most of the bills. They could do that back then because shyt wasn't as expensive as it is now, and less things to buy. Even if you didn't get married, the idea was to take care of your chick. It was for me, and everyone I knew, but I seen chicks would abuse it, and think you were her slave, so I would stop it if she was on some bullshyt. A lot of guys didn't, and those are the guys who would talk that "real man" shyt, but because it wouldn't make sense, then they would talk that "my parents did it' shyt or "I'm from____". The real reason is they didn't want that p*ssy to go away, and be back on the street searching for some new shyt!

If you mean home's being passed down, then that depends on who you are talking about. For example I didn't have a home passed down, or most people I know from Brooklyn, because we were from the city(lived in apartments), but a lot of my older family members from down south did. The home ownership rate was 42% in 1970 for blacks, its still the same now, so it coincides with what I've seen growing up. That rate needs to rise, but considering a lot of blacks live major cities where the houses costs way too much, it might not happen anytime soon.
 
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Dog, I’m halfway stalking this chick right now. She’s 26, makes like $10 an hour, and her mouth looks her teeth looks like back up dancers in the background.

I still want her. But she doesn’t want me. I sometimes have moments where I want to be a sucker and have her use and abuse me. Then I remember: these chicks aren’t getting shyt from me.

We are 2 years away from a nice robot. And that’s only a 1 time fee.
 

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And she will do this, but as soon as that contract is signed, she aint gonna do shyt if she doesn't want to.

She knows if you divorce, shyt is a wrap for you. Assuming she knows the laws.

This is why dating a chick who is just regular, chances of things going wrong is less. If she wants the image of family, something is gonna go wrong somewhere.

These people on the video talking about their parents are still little kids. I bet you one of their parents cheated, was depressed, or abusive, these lifestyles of working all day, and cooking all day, cleaning all day, is not realistic. I've seen how people work when no one is looking, and it taught me to be realisitic, and think "would you do that?" A lot of people play a role, it stresses them out, and that opens up the gate to being devilish. If a person expects you to do so much in a 12-16 hour cycle, is a problem down the line.

The people in this video are gonna be in for a rude awakening, because treating your mate like a slave isn't right, I don't care how you feel things should go.
Thats why you dont marry a bird... who has a bird's brain... but the craziest thing tho is that these types of ppl probly for the most part wouldn't like each other.
A no good bytch... probly would gravitate more toward thug or something...
And a nikka who provides and would want a stay at home wife, probly wouldnt look at a bird brain bytch.... or even if he did... she wouldn't want him... "He's too nice"
 
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