But that isn't necessarily true anymore
The problem is things have changed, but people are still looking at old media, or older elders, which is influencing their thinking. This is why we have problems with each other as genders, no one is being honest with the times they are living in, this creates confusion, and stress.
As a man, if you follow ways that don't work anymore, you are a fool! This is actually the best times for a man who doesn't want to work to the day he dies, and live life. Women work, they give up sex before marriage, you have more big boy toys for yourself because of technology, and more that I'm forgetting. The guys who keep talking about their fathers or older men, they keep ignoring how sad these men are/were. All they know is working, and giving that money up for other people, and then the mother gets most of the praise a lot of the times, but they do this because they had no choice if they wanted sex! It's not like that any more, so you act accordingly.
The secret people don't realize, is women had men thinking taking care of them made them a real man. Women have so much game that unless you take emotions out of it, you would never see it, and think you are doing what's right, while she secretly knows she has ALL the power. Listen to the women in this video, and peep the game!