I have been that guy. Went to a white college. The few Black people there were very insulated and only did one of three things. Meanwhile the white kids were camping, hiking, skinny dipping with females, doing every drug, traveling to raves and all kinds of shyt.
So I went and did it all
This was the 90s and I actually thought most people were cool.
And I have learned. I had a ball but after a while the true colors come out.
Now, I won't even get chummy with a white dude at work. I will still let a white chick swallow me. Just as I would an Eskimo or a Klingon bish if they holding. So I am a little more friendly with them just in case they wanna see what its like.
Ultimately I just don't trust any of them anymore. Especially after Trump. So I haven't even started a new white bish in well over a decade.