It's not even just that...it just honestly annoys me how everybody has no problem evaluating and even ripping this generation to shreds, but if you dare even attempt to critique one single thing about the older generations approach, everybody gets mad and some will even cuss you out
I think it's fine to critique my generation AND the older generations. It shouldn't be the norm to do it to us yet act like theirs was perfect (and off limits to examine or discuss).
Black men of my generation have A LOT of room for improvement. It's talked about a lot. I've even said it myself. But what is hardly ever addressed is that....one of our biggest mistakes is following in the same footsteps of the previous generations. Instead of learning from the mistakes they made, we seem to be ok with just doing the same thing they did. Imo, it's not that the older generations builded for us, passed it down and we just came along and fukked it all up.
That's what a lot of them try to make it seem like, but that's definitely not the case. If it were, i would just admit it. The truth is, not much was built or passed down to us in the first place, the way it was for others, so many of us are struggling. My main critique of this gen. is that those of us who aren't struggling and are doing very well financially, tend to not care about the rest, and even look down on them. Instead of pooling resources together to try to help our people. Not all, but for the most part. Successful, well-off blacks tend to be very classist and individualistic. It also doesn't help that most are quick to move to a mostly white neighborhood where we aren't even wanted most of the time, and are happy as long as we have that "good career" working for white ppl.
We have to stop blindly defending all older ppl...we don't blindly defend younger ppl so i don't see why we should keep doing this. Not all deserve praise, i'm not saying they deserve disrespect but we need to stop overly praising ppl just for being alive
One example, i have an uncle who has A LOT of money. He always kept talking about starting a restaurant and putting some black ppl on, but he never did. What he did do is buy himself a big house, luxury cars, take trips to numerous islands, a bunch of jewelry, playing golf with old cacs etc i actually can think of several older black men i know like this, who i know for a fact had enough bread to start a business but did not, they rather stunt and be "that nikka" and not build something for black ppl. Some of them also look down on poorer black men. Now, should we blindly praise these types of men or should we just tell the truth that they don't care about helping other black ppl?...
Not creating businesses, jobs, etc but they deserve to be blindly defended and praised? Why? It's not all older black men, but too many to count. I don't hate or resent them, I just don't think not building or caring to build deserves heaps of praise and defending. I see the "blueprint" and I honestly don't want to do the same. I'm doing the opposite