PhonZhi
Veteran
Keep thinkin these white folks really want you around
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/stop-trying-to-party-with-them.464914/
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/stop-trying-to-party-with-them.464914/
Try reading a little harder. I haven't hung out with white people since college a few years back, hence "back in college." My relationships have always primarily been with minorities but it's like 110% undeniable that white people are just friendlier. I didn't have "juice" in the white community back in college like that but if I popped out to even 1 party people who had class with me and/or exchanged a few words with me would instantly come up to say hi and act like we're friends. You'd walk away with like 15-20 numbers of guys and girls and if you actually make the effort to extend the relationship it usually leads you to an even bigger network of friends, and/or a body.Get lulled to sleep by white people disarm tactics brehs.
That "is he one of the good ones" test claims another one
A lot of white frats are undeniably racist but frats in general are just extremely selective about who they want to let into their parties, let's not kid themselves. Using frats as an example is just taking things to an extreme anyways. Most of the black people here would look like a fish outta water at a Q party and that frat is all black. I just meant regular house parties where anyone is invited.
I mean in an environment where most of the people associating with eachother are strangers or just acquaintances, ie: a party.
I love black people and have plenty of black friends. But in a college party environment it's UNDENIABLY easier to make friends and have a conversation with random cacs than it is black people. Black people wanna have their guard up at all times and y'all are gonna call it "c00ning" to say that but it's just the truth.
In my college experience the black relationships I made came from housing situations, classes, clubs, sports teams, etc. Rarely from parties besides girls I bagged. And then when you get to these parties you're "cliqued up" with the people you've met from all the places I mentioned just now for the whole night, and rarely ever is any effort made to approach a clique you don't know and make friends.
That's probably a problem with you as an individual and because you have complex issue you immediately attribute it to your blackness rather than something else.Let me be even more clear, I've been to white frat parties and regular white college parties and nikkaz weren't welcomed there either. Stop with the goofy shyt
This is what frustrates me about this kinda topic. If you are a brotha among other brehs you don't know like that there's a good chance alot of them will be on some meanmug type shyt likeKeep thinkin these white folks really want you around
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/stop-trying-to-party-with-them.464914/