Black Mothers and Effeminate Black Sons

[beanz]

Naw ky. Crazy we got the exact same story though.
My cousins dad is manliest dude i know, son just came out fruity

people always think im bullshytting when i tell them this but its 100% true....there was a pic of me and him when we were about 9 months where he trying to kiss me. its the funniest pic in the world cause it says everything about us both. he leaning in ready to makeout with me and im pulling away like

i threw it away when i was like 9 cause my uncle was always bringing it up and making fun of me. so one day i ripped it up and threw it in the trash

 

[cornercommission2k12]

they dont turn gay they born gay.

but we just gonna go back and forth on whether gayness is learned or born with so let me not

If people are born gay why are there so many ex gay people?

 

[onelastdeath]

Get mad at me if you want but most of the black boys I see who are gay don't have a father around. You can't tell me that all these nikkas are born this way.

I have a gay to the extreme cousin who had both his parents in his life.

 

[LA Fisher]

Sounds like shytty black men need to take care of their kids and stop blaming single mothers for not knowing how to turn a boy into a man.

How come the shytty black men get the most women

 

[skeetsinternal]

How can we save our sons from the evil black women brehs?

 

[intruder]

Sounds like shytty black men need to take care of their kids and stop blaming single mothers for not knowing how to turn a boy into a man.

Both parties share blame babe. The sooner we realize that and get our respective groups to own it the quicker we can rectify the problem

ANd @skeetsinternal , you still didnt answer my question.

 

[KinksandCoils]

How come the shytty black men get the most women

Cause they seek multiple women to feel like a man instead of just having one good woman.

 

[beanz]

If people are born gay why are there so many ex gay people?

there are no ex gay people. those people are living a lie.

there's "ex-bisexual" girls who made out with other girls when they were teens, but actual gay people suddenly becoming straight is bullshyt.

 

[steadyrighteous]

I get that you are not gay but do you view yourself as "effeminate"? Do people tell you you are or think you are?

Not at all, I'm just saying in comparison to what a lot of nikkas on here say (granted, a lot of it is just fukkery, trolling and race/gender-baiting) I'm not as "real" or "manly" or "Hard on Hoes" as I "should" be.

I hope that makes sense.



EDIT: And I would attribute that to being raised by a single mother. I'm basically tryna say, it ain't all bad. It's not always an extreme one way or another, but I forgot where I was for a second. This isn't exactly the place for biased and adult convo (for the most part)

 

[KinksandCoils]

Both parties share blame babe. The sooner we realize that and get our respective groups to own it the quicker we can rectify the problem

How? If the woman is doing her part but the man isn't how is it both faults? A man should want to take care of his child no matter how the baby mom acts. So what am I missing?

The same goes the opposite way. If the woman isn't doing the job then the same can be said. Both are not at fault. Only the person not doing their job. As an adult you should take care of responsibilities.

 

[FTBS]

Stop mating with birds. Stop abandoning the seeds you make. It seems very simple. However everybody (women included) would rather just fukk and deal with or not deal with the consequences later so maybe it's isn't so simple.

 

[intruder]

If people are born gay why are there so many ex gay people?

Interesting point but i see a flaw in it. Follow me for a sec:

Okay.. let's reverse that question: What about those that led heterosexual lives early on and then became gay later in life? These are technically ex-straight people. Now let's apply it to your logic and analyze it.

 

[beanz]

Not at all, I'm just saying in comparison to what a lot of nikkas on here say (granted, a lot of it is just fukkery, trolling and race/gender-baiting) I'm not as "real" or "manly" or "Hard on Hoes" as I "should" be.

I hope that makes sense.

i feel what u saying. i dont consider myself a super macho man either. i love football and i can fix damn near anything and i love women. i drink beer and clown with my boys and say some chauvinistic shyt sometimes, but i also get teary eyed at sad moments in movies and enjoy a romantic comedy here and there.

ive seen the notebook too. and im mushy and romantic as hell with my wife.

im also not a thug and way more inclined to avoid a fight if i can. i havent been in a real 1 on 1 fight since i was like 13.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

*Goes back to the coliseum and booth*

 

[steadyrighteous]

i feel what u saying. i dont consider myself a super macho man either. i love football and i can fix damn near anything and i love women. i drink beer and clown with my boys and say some chauvinistic shyt sometimes, but i also get teary eyed at sad moments in movies and enjoy a romantic comedy here and there.

ive seen the notebook too. and im mushy and romantic as hell with my wife.

im also not a thug and way more inclined to avoid a fight if i can. i havent been in a real 1 on 1 fight since i was like 13.

I feel you. I think as fun as it is to discuss the extremes in either direction, most people tend to fall in the grey area in-between.