An older black woman is probably the way to go
True story, back in school I was stressed out from the class work and schedule and finances and actually did seek out counseling services due to the stress my rigorous schedul at the time.
If you saw the episode of Mike Tyson memoirs where he went to the therapist and she tried to blame Cus for Mike's problems. That was me when this campus therapist tried to somehow tie my stress to my dad. I was like
My dad aint never stress me out, lol he barely ever raised his voice much less put any pressures on me. Anyway, she was blk, middle age with the short hair cut dyed blonde, I guess that should have been a clue lol.
Not all female therapists are like this, I wouldn't be that ignorant, but it does raise some concerns.