Black men how do we convince black women to love their natural hair?

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@CinnaSlim Please do the education.
Of course let's not look at the cause of this supposed problem let's just condemn without examination. Can't even get that bit of consideration.
white supremacy and their mommas are the cause, and black men take the blame, while white men get the praise.
 

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:ohhh: so there aren't any black owned hair care product companies dat u can give ur money to and help grow, promoting black excellence?
Its not too many and even then the products either cost an arm and leg (like miss Jessies and Carols Daughter), they are mixed up in someone's kitchen (And they still charge alot) or you have to try a BUNCH of products just to get the perfect mix which requires alot of trial and error.
 

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Maybe if y'all stop fukking drooling over one type of hair maybe more would be open to embracing it.
Y'all post girls with 2/3abc hair, drooling and :noah:ing, believe it or not that's not the most common hair type among black women.
Yup when they think curly natural hair what they don't tell you is that they really mean this

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NOT this
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Then got the nerve to be talking about natural hair when most shave themselves practically bald, so that they don't have to "deal" with it. Then the ones with long natural hair are like "well I did it why can't you"? Knowing damn well that they only wore one style for 3 years, and barely touched their hair. Something people would call women crazy for doing. It'll be "why don't you switch your style up" and "you should change your hair". Manipulation is the mortal enemy of natural hair, and when women find a low manipulation hairstyle (weave) it's a problem? Then the big elephant in the room... blacks have been told that their hair is less than, unkempt, unprofessional, and a whole other host of negative things for centuries. Of course some people are going to believe that indoctrination. But, no let's worry about women who don't wear their natural hair and make fun of them instead of doing something like educating our people and building a black economy. Oh, and all this Is coming from someone with natural hair. :stopitslime:
 
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It's Euro beauty standards enforced by White people (whom are naturally more attracted to their kind perpertuate this at the expense of other races) Considering the black media is heavily owned by rich folks i dont think there is much that can be done on a mass level. Individual blacks can work on local level i suppose.
 

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Maybe if y'all stop fukking drooling over one type of hair maybe more would be open to embracing it.
Y'all post girls with 2/3abc hair, drooling and :noah:ing, believe it or not that's not the most common hair type among black women.
Could you post examples of this type?
 

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Yup when they think curly natural hair what they don't tell you is that they really mean this

3A-new-253x300.jpeg

NOT this
4c.jpg


Then got the nerve to be talking about natural hair when most shave themselves practically bald, so that they don't have to "deal" with it. Then the ones with long natural hair are like "well I did it why can't you"? Knowing damn well that they only wore one style for 3 years, and barely touched their hair. Something people would look at women crazy for doing. It'll be "why don't you switch your style up" and "you should change your hair". Manipulation is the mortal enemy of natural hair, and when women find a low manipulation hairstyle (weave) it's a problem? Then the big elephant in the room... blacks have been told that their hair is less than, unkempt, unprofessional, and a whole other host of negative things for centuries. Of course some people are going to believe that indoctrination. But, no let's worry about women who don't wear their natural hair and make fun of them instead of doing something like educating our people and building a black economy. Oh, and all this coming from someone with natural hair. :stopitslime:


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Yup when they think curly natural hair what they don't tell you is that they really mean this

3A-new-253x300.jpeg

NOT this
4c.jpg


Then got the nerve to be talking about natural hair when most shave themselves practically bald, so that they don't have to "deal" with it. Then the ones with long natural hair are like "well I did it why can't you"? Knowing damn well that they only wore one style for 3 years, and barely touched their hair. Something people would look at women crazy for doing. It'll be "why don't you switch your style up" and "you should change your hair". Manipulation is the mortal enemy of natural hair, and when women find a low manipulation hairstyle (weave) it's a problem? Then the big elephant in the room... blacks have been told that their hair is less than, unkempt, unprofessional, and a whole other host of negative things for centuries. Of course some people are going to believe that indoctrination. But, no let's worry about women who don't wear their natural hair and make fun of them instead of doing something like educating our people and building a black economy. Oh, and all this coming from someone with natural hair. :stopitslime:
Girl that's why I rock my kurly klips :blessed: imma do that till my hair grows out to that length :banderas:
 

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disgust me too

white supremacy fukked up black folks opinion of our hair, and black women fukk the overall opinion of their childrens hair.

its crazy how black men get the blame when most of yall had a grandmama or momma that was telling you your nappy hair aint shyt, while perming it and burning yall ears and necks with a damn hot comb.
 

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disgust me too

white supremacy fukked up black folks opinion of our hair, and black women fukk the overall opinion of their childrens hair.

its crazy how black men get the blame when most of yall had a grandmama or momma that was telling you your nappy hair aint shyt, while perming it and burning yall ears and necks with a damn hot comb.
Can't argue with this :ehh:
 

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Yup when they think curly natural hair what they don't tell you is that they really mean this

3A-new-253x300.jpeg

NOT this
4c.jpg


Then got the nerve to be talking about natural hair when most shave themselves practically bald, so that they don't have to "deal" with it. Then the ones with long natural hair are like "well I did it why can't you"? Knowing damn well that they only wore one style for 3 years, and barely touched their hair. [1.] Something people would look at women crazy for doing. It'll be "why don't you switch your style up" and "you should change your hair". Manipulation is the mortal enemy of natural hair, and when women find a low manipulation hairstyle (weave) it's a problem? Then the big elephant in the room...[2.] blacks have been told that their hair is less than, unkempt, unprofessional, and a whole other host of negative things for centuries. Of course some people are going to believe that indoctrination. But, no let's worry about women who don't wear their natural hair and [3.] make fun of them instead of doing something like educating our people and building a black economy. Oh, and all this coming from someone with natural hair. :stopitslime:
1. If they ask you why dont you switch your style up or tell you that you should change your hair then tell them to fukk off.

2. That is what we need to make sure happens less.

3. I do agree that the making fun of approach doesnt work.
 
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