Black masculinity will be the theme of the 3rd season of Insecure

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Her body,
her choice...
What comes next?
If two people don't plan a child and one wants to keep a child, what is that? Where is your data, and why are you so firmly fighting against facts?
"Random men staying in their houses" but they remain unmarried and continue birthing children at their leisure.
"butbutbut condom"
Her body, her choice...her 100+ forms of contraception.
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I’ve been consistent. I don’t give a shyt about hood rat shyt. I’m just going off what I’ve seen and what certain communities are OK with. Seen plenty of shyt in watts and those projects during visits. Those kids are broken.

You fukk a bytch raw...shocker. She may end up pregnant. Wow
Don’t fukk a hoes raw. Use condom. If you know a girl doesn’t have shyt, family ain’t shyt or she has a dead end job and looking for an 18 year plan. Don’t fukk

plenty of gutter bytches. These men are fukking them tho what your point?

Yes her body/ choice and it was plenty of black men who choice to abandon there kids.
 
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I’ve been consistent. I don’t give a shyt about hood rat shyt. I’m just going off what I’ve seen and what certain communities are OK with. Seen plenty of shyt in watts and those projects during visits. Those kids are broken.

You fukk a bytch raw...shocker. She may end up pregnant. Wow
Don’t fukk a hoes raw. Use condom. If you know a girl doesn’t have shyt, family ain’t shyt or she has a dead end job and looking for an 18 year plan. Don’t fukk

plenty of gutter bytches. These men are fukking them tho what your point?

Yes her body/ choice and it was plenty of black men who choice to abandon there kids.
"and it was plenty of black men who choice to abandon there kids"

:mjlol:
Everybody black isn't in/from the projects. Most of us don't live there...and we all know men can't just sign up for those types of subsidized homes, either.
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Stop with the armchair psychology. Men are on average less emotional than women. Women, on average, are more emotional than men. This isnt "toxic" but is just the way things are. Men are protectors, women are nurturers. Society is trying to destroy that and muddy the waters so as to create disorder/chaos.


Firstly, less emotional doesn't mean that they should be told that showing any emotion is a sign of weakness. Secondly, if men are not supposed to be emotional why in the year 2014, were there 2,421 suicides in our community 80% (1,946) of those suicides were BLACK MEN.

Depression in African American Men: A Review of What We Know and Where We Need to Go From Here

"Two studies were located that examined the role of African American men’s values and belief systems and the impact on their psychological help-seeking behaviors. Sanders Thompson, Bazile, and Akbar (2004) utilized a qualitative approach and conducted focus groups to elicit an in-depth understanding of the attitudes, values, and beliefs of African Americans regarding topics such as psychotherapy and barriers to treatment. Mixed-sex focus groups were conducted (May to November 2000) in an urban, midwestern city, with a total of 201 African Americans, of whom 66 were men. Results showed that a cultural barrier to seeking psychotherapy involved the perception that seeking psychotherapy was associated with weakness and diminished pride. One participant in this study illustrated this perception by stating, “Mental illness is considered a weakness and we wouldn’t recognize it in the first place, because strong families just don’t do that.”"

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4215700/#!po=42.9293
 

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Season 1 is soooo good, you should watch it, you will love it.
I don't wanna fall for the okie doke. Hollywood sets us up like this. Funnels blk talent thru c00ning and thinly veiled remixed stereotypes created by whites and put onto us like blk dysfunctional relationships.

Maybe one day...lol!
 
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Firstly, less emotional doesn't mean that they should be told that showing any emotion is a sign of weakness. Secondly, if men are not supposed to be emotional why in the year 2014, were there 2,421 suicides in our community 80% (1,946) of those suicides were BLACK MEN.

Depression in African American Men: A Review of What We Know and Where We Need to Go From Here

"Two studies were located that examined the role of African American men’s values and belief systems and the impact on their psychological help-seeking behaviors. Sanders Thompson, Bazile, and Akbar (2004) utilized a qualitative approach and conducted focus groups to elicit an in-depth understanding of the attitudes, values, and beliefs of African Americans regarding topics such as psychotherapy and barriers to treatment. Mixed-sex focus groups were conducted (May to November 2000) in an urban, midwestern city, with a total of 201 African Americans, of whom 66 were men. Results showed that a cultural barrier to seeking psychotherapy involved the perception that seeking psychotherapy was associated with weakness and diminished pride. One participant in this study illustrated this perception by stating, “Mental illness is considered a weakness and we wouldn’t recognize it in the first place, because strong families just don’t do that.”"

Depression in African American Men: A Review of What We Know and Where We Need to Go From Here
The vast majority of suicides, arrests, murders, etc are men, PERIOD.
The stats will match up in the black community.
Men are more homeless, more depressed, more unemployable, more incarcerated, more likely to be killed, abused and ignored...especially in the black community.
So don't try to shift this all on "being too proud to feel"...It's the people who are supposed to give a fukk not giving a fukk, and it's a psychological/psychiatry system that experimented on US as youths...so of course we'll be more mistrusting.
Get that bullshyt out of here.
Experiments On Children Are Reviewed

Federal research-ethics officials are investigating several psychiatric experiments in which 100 New York City boys, many of them black or Hispanic, were given the now-banned diet drug fenfluramine.

The three experiments took place at the New York State Psychiatric Institute, which is affiliated with Columbia University, at Queens College and the Mount Sinai School of Medicine over three years, ending in 1996. In the experiment at the New York Psychiatric Institute, 34 children, all of whom were 6- to 10-year-old black or Hispanic boys, were given intravenous doses of fenfluramine to test a theory that violent or criminal behavior may be predicted by levels of certain brain chemicals.

How Black Prison Inmates in Philadelphia Were Turned Into Human Guinea Pigs: A Memoir
HOW BLACK PRISON INMATES IN PHILADELPHIA WERE TURNED INTO HUMAN GUINEA PIGS: A MEMOIR
 

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Firstly, less emotional doesn't mean that they should be told that showing any emotion is a sign of weakness. Secondly, if men are not supposed to be emotional why in the year 2014, were there 2,421 suicides in our community 80% (1,946) of those suicides were BLACK MEN.

Men arent told that showing any emotion is a sign of weakness. When a man loses a loved one, no one expects him to not show emotion or cry. What is expected is to not be AS emotional as (the average) woman. And its no wonder that black men commit suicide at higher rates than black woman since they are attacked more in this society. Theres nothing to show for it being because "they are told not to show emotion"

Depression in African American Men: A Review of What We Know and Where We Need to Go From Here

"Two studies were located that examined the role of African American men’s values and belief systems and the impact on their psychological help-seeking behaviors. Sanders Thompson, Bazile, and Akbar (2004) utilized a qualitative approach and conducted focus groups to elicit an in-depth understanding of the attitudes, values, and beliefs of African Americans regarding topics such as psychotherapy and barriers to treatment. Mixed-sex focus groups were conducted (May to November 2000) in an urban, midwestern city, with a total of 201 African Americans, of whom 66 were men. Results showed that a cultural barrier to seeking psychotherapy involved the perception that seeking psychotherapy was associated with weakness and diminished pride. One participant in this study illustrated this perception by stating, “Mental illness is considered a weakness and we wouldn’t recognize it in the first place, because strong families just don’t do that.”"

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4215700/#!po=42.9293


Your paragraph attributes it to a "cultural barrier" and not a gender based one. In all actuality cacs are just using feminists to destroy gender roles and of course, most women are falling for it. So this "toxic masculinity, is really a smoke screen for cacs to attack masculinity altogether while they utilize feminism to attack femininity.
 

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You going hard for deadbeat sperm doners? I don’t understand way
As I interpret it, he isn't going hard for deadbeat fathers, he's going against the stereotype that the majority of black men who aren't with their babies mother, are deadbeat fathers or fathers who up and abandoned their kids/family, which is not true.The stats he posted show that alot of these black fathers are still in the lives of their children, even if they're not with the mother.
 
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As I interpret it, he isn't going hard for deadbeat fathers, he's going against the stereotype that the majority of black men who aren't with their babies mother, are deadbeat fathers or fathers who up and abandoned their kids/family, which is not true.The stats he posted show that alot of these black fathers are still in the lives of their children, even if they're not with the mother.
This.
"Deadbeat father" is another buzzword.
Dummies don't know where it came from.
A deadbeat was originally somebody who didn't want to pay a bill.
Somehow (janet reno, literal project bytches, luke, miami....do googles) "child support enforcement" culture left the projects and hopped into the mainstream lexicon just like the rest of these garbage terns.
@LAVENDER there is no "well my feminism..."
@The_Truth nikkas are born and conceived every day and have been nonstop since the earth began. There's obviously no issue here if women keep CHOOSING to do so despite being in the only era where they really don't have to.
"Something wrong with our masculinity"
Stop listening to people who base their culture off what we do, but put a lazy female spin on it. Mascots don't deserve consideration, much less a group of mascots that are trying to be Angela Davis, RuPaul, Cardi B, and a white woman from sex and the city, all in one bytch. Spending 40 years writing books analyzing "the big bad black man" whilst hoodrat culture goes through an unchecked renaissance. Yeah WE fukked up, right?
Taking these nutballs serious?
I stopped doing that long ago.
 

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A thread full of bytching and yell ain't even see the trailer yet.

Yall did the same thing about season one.

Clowns.
 
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