Acceptance, not appreciation but acceptance of a sexual preference that is outside of heterosexuality in the black community is needed to lower numbers like this. At the end of the day, people will be what they want to be. I'm always going to love women of a certain type, that's my thing. Other the other hand, some people will be bi or homosexual. We should not be trying to legislate people's activities in the bedroom. However, we have people that would stand for being called a ****** over a fakkit and families disassociates themselves with gay members of their families. One of the many issues with the church is the handling of this issue. My mom trying to tell me that it's in the mind and a person can change. No, you can't because you aren't being true to yourself then. I've hated guacamole since the first time I had it, loved video games the first time I played and realized that I loved a nice pair of t*ts the first time I saw them. (Apollonia in Purple Rain) If these types of things are done in our community, we won't have people trying to live to an ideal forced upon them because of perceived normalcy. I'm married to a woman with kids. We need to first, let these people live and some things will work itself out.