Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Blackout]

All them places and more so don't fukking play that game buddy. I live up north, was raised in the south/north, have family friends all over in Cali that I see often so yeah you and your BFF come with some different shyt. Truthfully I've always thought going by your post you one of them dudes that will crossover because of one of them tired they don't want me excuses anyway. I guess shouldn't be surprised you of all people would claim to see this stuff and maybe your BFF on the same vibe. Another thing I know for fact we don't agree on shyt involving dating we just two different dudes on that front.

Well hey believe what you want to believe but I know what I see which is many Mexican women with short and fat Mexican men and I'm not blind.

In fact when I go out tomorrow I'll see them like I usually do.

 

[Samori Toure]

Like I said they're scared to admit they crave their white knight with shining blond hair and blue eyes.

They should just go on and admit it and be happy. That way they don't have to pretend that they like Black men, when in fact they don't. They won't have to be miserable anymore or ashamed of who they like.

The funniest part of it all is that Black women will find out that the group of people that will not judge them at all for making their decision will be Black men. We don't care, because it is not our business. I have never ever heard one Black man ever speak ill of Serena or Venus Williams because of the fact that they date White men. That would be hypocritical of us, because Tiger Woods dates nothing but White women and Black men don't say anything about him so why say something about the Williams sisters. They are not hurting anybody. So Black men are the most understanding group that there is, because we don't fault people for loving who they love. We mind our own business, unlike Black women.

 

[philmonroe]

Well hey believe what you want to believe but I know what I see which is many Mexican women with short and fat men and I'm not blind.

Agree to disagree is something we can agree on

 

[Blackout]

Agree to disagree is something we can agree on

There is no agree to disagree here.

I'm saying what I see and I'm not blind.

 

[KOohbt]

black feminist be the girls who won't twerk on a nikka at the club

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Here's just one of those post. Screenshoted it to make sure you didnt edit it out. ;)

Like I said date a non-black man and just be done with it.

I see a certain poster has ran from this thread...

 

[bcrusaderw]

you believe BM admire the features of WM? i mean, if i saw nikkas walking round skin bleaching, wearing hairhats, colored contacts, while striving for rhinoplasty--MAYBE i'd believe you.

Naw, but you do go around lusting after this

Don't deny it either. You in particular have been very vocal about this fact.

 

[Poitier]

if yall dont understand the agenda, just watch the video.

But they are already subjugated and unattractive to other men

Stick with hoodrats yall

 

[Gains]

she's light skinned

 

[agnosticlady]

a lot of these women live in NYC and have the audacity to say that there arent any good black men here

I'm friends/associates/acquaintances with 75+ black men that are college graduates and/or gainfully employed, conscious, & that want to build with black women.

let's be 100% honest, many millennial black women are deathly afraid of a black male that has his shyt together

When I first heard that I thought some black men were over exaggerating. I do believe that many black women are afraid of getting with a black man that has his stuff together because it would require accountability. For instance if Kierra is making $45,000 a year, lives in a good neighborhood, has a good car, is pretty, and etc then starts a relationship with David who makes $25,000 a year, lives with his parents to save money, has a job as a bus driver, and etc she will not feel threatened because economically and somewhat socially he is not doing as well as she is. She will feel like the boss. She may bring her up her status if he questions her. Also some women feel like a man will not stray when in the position.
On the other hand if Kierra get's with Jamal who makes $70,000 a year, has great benefits, is in shape himself, has things going for himself, and etc she may feel threatened. Since he has his life together he may expect more cooperation and will immediately call her out if she get's out of line. This is something that I see. I've come across several black women who say that they want to make more than their man. I could be wrong but I think it has to do more with what I mentioned. She may feel like since she has more going on she can call the shots when in a relationship with a man who is not doing better than her economically.

 

[Poitier]

she's light skinned

Nah thats just a filter

 

[philmonroe]

There is no agree to disagree here.

I'm saying what I see and I'm not blind.

nikka you Mollyed up? Its not the fukking norm but to save this back and forth of nobody agreeing besides agreeing the other full of shyt any fukking way I'm saying fukk it you have your view I have mine period. This isn't hard to understand or is it?

 

[marcuz]

Naw, but you do go around lusting after this

Don't deny it either. You in particular have been very vocal about this fact.

like i said, dudes may want the wealth and access to women. but we dont want to be white. BW want to look like these women^^

 

[Barnett114]

Damn near everyone on my father's side of my family is dating outside of their race. Whenever I go out I see IR couples all around, it's not uncommon at all here in AZ. Don't get me wrong, blacks still mainly stay with blacks, but I've been seeing a lot more IR couples within the past few years.

Not a lot of black people in Arizona.

 

[Blackout]

nikka you Mollyed up? Its not the fukking norm but to save this back and forth of nobody agreeing besides agreeing the other full of shyt any fukking way I'm saying fukk it you have your view I have mine period. This isn't hard to understand or is it?

I see it as the norm everyday in Texas. I'm not blind