Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[KOohbt]

So black men have no issues? That is where black feminism falls flat. It shouldn't be just about the black female sex before you are black before you are a woman. We should be fighting as a whole against white supremacy.

can they even articulate the specific issues they face in detail as black women that isn't tied to race? also who are they expecting to fix their issues?

 

[agnosticlady]

This is why I no longer take those black females being deeply into their African roots seriously. Hoodrats for me...

And I use to be heavily for those women.

Nah stay away from crazy hoodrats who refuse to learn..........You are better off dating a black woman who knows her history, is calm, respectful, has a mind of her own (doesn't follow trends and etc), and just does her. Stay far away from the black feminist and the women of the crazy conscious community. As a woman I've been around them and I've hung around them. They are mostly loony.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

nikka plz

They got mexican "dimes" choosing to date short or fat mexicans.

I see this shyt everyday.

I have a wild theory...

Women seek qualities that their fathers had/have..I see alot of hispanic chicks who date chubby dudes..they be controlling as fukk too.
That and they choose someone their parents/family would approve of...since it's a given with them hispanics the whole damn family meeting the boyfriend.

She basically confirmed my thoughts on Black Feminist and Rich Pro Blacks like Henry Gates. I always maintain that Poor Blacks are the only truly Pro Black people, as a whole.

@Box Cutta @marcuz @Killer Instinct @bcrusaderw @Queen @Elle Driver @SuperCoolP_Cal @agnosticlady @7Revo @Yup thoughts?

To be fair, people who are awake been peeped that.

Damn shame...because I love black women with natural black features

But it's at the point where if I see a black woman with a freeform afro,dreads then I automatically assume she a feminist who dating some herb hipster white dude.They all have that look...

 

[agnosticlady]

can they even articulate the specific issues they face in detail as black women that isn't tied to race? also who are they expecting to fix their issues?

That is why I said that black feminist do not care about black men. They want subservient black men and they want to be the head honcho in charge. It is no surprise though. America has pushed the idea that black women are better than black men. You take away a mans ability to provide and protect his family. Then you throw the woman a dog bone. Now she thinks that she is better than her man even though she is still under the oppressor that put her there.
There are many issues that black men and women face. Most black feminist really think that black men have privilege in this country because someone made a pawg thread.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

and men like Belafonte were not fighting to separate and build

He was definitely pro black tho.....

 

[philmonroe]

Naw, but you do go around lusting after this

Don't deny it either. You in particular have been very vocal about this fact.

Whats wrong with this chick besides she light skin? This seems like the problem where some black dudes like FOH y'all just jealous. Some of y'all feel you aren't lusted after like a chick that looks like that and madder than a mother fukker. So what if dudes like her if a person is any type of attractive they would know they can still get dudes. Unless your saying she has access to men you can't get of quality only because of light skin/eyes

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Nah stay away from crazy hoodrats who refuse to learn..........You are better off dating a black woman who knows her history, is calm, respectful, has a mind of her own (doesn't follow trends and etc), and just does her. Stay far away from the black feminist and the women of the crazy conscious community. As a woman I've been around them and I've hung around them. They are mostly loony.

I mean I have messed with some hoodrats.

But noted. Especially since you're a women.

And to be clear I wasnt trying to diss all BW but those delusional social media ones who make up excuses for why they love non-black men.

 

[philmonroe]

I see it as the norm everyday in Texas. I'm not blind

Yeah and for everybody like you got fam/friends that don't so That's why we can agree to disagree. Unless you just want to go on and in about vision

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Belafonte is not Pro Black. Pro-"equality" sure....

but not pro black

Nah. He was pro black.... Yall new age nerd type nikkas like to twist rhetoric....... but that's all yall really are... just rhetoric.....

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

That is why I said that black feminist do not care about black men. They want subservient black men and they want to be the head honcho in charge. It is no surprise though. America has pushed the idea that black women are better than black men. You take away a mans ability to provide and protect his family. Then you throw the woman a dog bone. Now she thinks that she is better than her man even though she is still under the oppressor that put her there.
There are many issues that black men and women face. Most black feminist really think that black men have privilege in this country because someone made a pawg thread.

Agreed...

sick of hearing some bullshyt about male privilege because of some white dude like Michael Buble posting a picture of some white chick's ass.

I also peep how all the examples of this "male privilege" typically involves white women being wronged.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

When I first heard that I thought some black men were over exaggerating. I do believe that many black women are afraid of getting with a black man that has his stuff together because it would require accountability. For instance if Kierra is making $45,000 a year, lives in a good neighborhood, has a good car, is pretty, and etc then starts a relationship with David who makes $25,000 a year, lives with his parents to save money, has a job as a bus driver, and etc she will not feel threatened because economically and somewhat socially he is not doing as well as she is. She will feel like the boss. She may bring her up her status if he questions her. Also some women feel like a man will not stray when in the position.
On the other hand if Kierra get's with Jamal who makes $70,000 a year, has great benefits, is in shape himself, has things going for himself, and etc she may feel threatened. Since he has his life together he may expect more cooperation and will immediately call her out if she get's out of line. This is something that I see. I've come across several black women who say that they want to make more than their man. I could be wrong but I think it has to do more with what I mentioned. She may feel like since she has more going on she can call the shots when in a relationship with a man who is not doing better than her economically.

youre 100% right


too many women, including @bcrusaderw , want to be the HBIC but no masculine male of substance would ever allow a women to be in charge.


majority of us will let yall have a seat next to the throne and help us rule the kingdom tho

millennial western women dont realize the power of submissiveness, a man of substance will move mountains for a woman that is submissive to him. he will build structures and outlets that will deify your existence, he will prioritize your life over his in most instances & will go to war in defense of his woman


black women that take pride in being submissive are usually derided by black feminists for claiming their femininity and taking pride in being submissive. black feminists equate submissive with slave & inferior but submissive women are incredibly nuanced.


guaranteed if submissiveness was the theme of the next beyonce album, black marriage rates would rise. all these chicks taking pride in being independent women who dont need no man aka watered down nikkas would change their tune REAL QUICK

 

[Red Shield]

Nah. He was pro black.... Yall new age nerd type nikkas like to twist rhetoric....... but that's all yall really are... just rhetoric.....

ALL of dude's kids are biracial. ALL of his grand kids are WHITE. If Harry was Pro Black... shyt wouldn't be like that. Because that shyt is beyond suspect.

Dude was/is Pro-Equality... but calling the man Pro-Black? nah breh

 

[agnosticlady]

I mean I have messed with some hoodrats.

But noted. Especially since you're a women.

And to be clear I wasnt trying to diss all BW but those delusional social media ones who make up excuses for why they love non-black men.

Lol no problem. There are black feminist and conscious women thinking that if you are a stripper with 40 tattoss, clapping your ass in the club, parading the money that you earn, and etc then you ares till a queen. You just "happened" to misplace your crown. Yet let a man not to take care of his kid and choose to not be in his child's life he is a deadbeat father. Don;t get me wrong there are black women in the conscious community who are cool and I enjoy hanging with but many put on a pro black act and have different agendas

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

ALL of dude's kids are biracial. ALL of his grand kids are WHITE. If Harry was Pro Black... shyt wouldn't be like that. Because that shyt is beyond suspect.

Dude was/is Pro-Equality... but calling the man Pro-Black? nah breh

Ali got white Grandkids too....... I'm gonna tell yall one last time..... its what you do and willingly sacrifice that makes you pro black... not who you fukk,,,,,,

In a multi cultural society, you're gonna have people that marry outside of their race....

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Naw, but you do go around lusting after this

Don't deny it either. You in particular have been very vocal about this fact.

Me personally,I don't lust after those features on black women though .

Black women who need to wear a long ass outrageous weave to feel good about themselves is