Live in a culture and society that places the vast majority of a women's appeal on how they look and then cry like a bytch when women internalize that and talk about things that affect them...such as how their lambasted by beauty standards of the nation they live in.
Shocker, women care about their looks because that's what they're typically judged by. Half you muddafukkas is quick to tell women that their value is lessened as they get older and that they're easily replaced by younger versions yet you wonder why things like looks and such aren't important issues to them?
Tell black women to focus on economics and education in one breath and then pop shyt at their accomplishments because it's in "hair" like black men are doing better than that.
Black women complain about these things, to us, because this stuff is important to them and, being that we're their men, it's in their nature to tell us these things so we can try to fix it. I haven't heard ONE black women say or imply that "cultural appropriation" is a bigger deal than black men getting gunned down but it IS an issue and it's something that does negatively affect black women.
They're not even expecting us to fix the problem, they just want it acknowledged and to feel like we're on their side rather than feel like issues that focus on them are just dismissed as "unimportant" or insulted for being bothered by stuff like that because you looking at it through eyes of a dude.
Yall say that black men appreciate black beauty but you (By you, I mean the vast majority of AA men) act like you haven't been subtly indoctrinated to appreciate white features too. You act like black women are just screaming to be miserable and loud without thinking that maybe black men aren't always as appreciative or supportive of our women as we should be. And no, fukking a women or saying "I only Fukk black women because they got big breasts and ass" isn't appreciating or supporting. It's deeper than being sexually objectified.
Black women feel like they don't have black men's respect. They know that black men love their figures and fukking them but that's not the same thing as respect.
This isn't new. Black men have always been public enemy #1 in this white man's society. That idea that black men enjoy systematic privileged over black women is looney. Your desperate need to cling to that lie is pathetic. So is your palpable resentment for black men.
Lost? No, sonny. Black women have faced just as much oppression as black men in this society, so your little sad oppression Olympics rhetoric is trash. I don't resent black men that's laughable.
