I get what she is saying, but this is what happens when you put yourself in the public eye. If you are attractive, and she damn sure is, AND you are not clamoring for attention, social media is gonna give you a bad time.
I have a txt file with a full-fledged idea for a youtube channel that I keep adding to, but have not pulled the trigger on because I still grapple with the idea of putting my face out there. Just bought a damn action Camera too. There are things you give up when you put yourself in front that camera, and privacy/anonymity is the very first one, especially if you blow up. From there, anybody anywhere can say and do anything with your likeness.