Washington Heights is dirty but it's a lower economic area. I'm in the area above it which is the very top of Manhattan. The eastern part (Dyckman) is 90% Hispanic and looks like the Heights. The western side I'm on is totally different. It was mostly white but is more diverse now. It's a very family oriented area. You always see people with their kids and dogs heading to the park. Very friendly people too...
This is the park :
It's right on the Hudson River:
That's the Bronx on the right side of the bridge, Jersey in the background:
If you only visited the Heights you've only seen 1/1000th of NYC. You gotta see Greenwich Village, SOHO, LES, Alphabet City, Little Italy, Chelsea, Midtown, Columbus Circle, Central Park, The upper East/West sides, and Harlem. That's only Manhattan. Brooklyn and Queens are massive with plenty to see.
DC isn't close to offering what NY can
Cali has a lot but is a totally different lifestyle. There's a lot of suburbs and you need a car. You can move around NYC on foot and public transport will get you anywhere.
When I lived in NY, I didnt enjoy it. Had alota issues with the chick I was there with and the weather and general culture was way different than anything u was used to, I was 21 when I got there and it wasn't my style of place...
Two years there and it grew on me...
I only spent one trip to NYC so of course I'm aware I didn't get anything close to a full NYC experience. I grew up transient though, born in (Sacramento) and lived in and been to many big cities, so while NYC is the biggest of them all and unique to anywhere I'd been, i didn't leave there with a feeling of damn, I really gotta get back here...
I think the way I grew up, from larger cities in general and moving around alot and seeing many places, is different from people who are from small cities or towns, or people who spent their adolescence in one place. Any big city, certainly NYC, or any place different if you'd never left your hometown, would hit you with that wide-eyed sensation, someone who grew up the way I did, no place is gonna have you open like that. I enjoyed the trip, one of her friends was from out there and I recognized it as unique but this wasn't some small town kid experiencing the big city for the first time...
It was just another new city I've been to. It was New York City, the biggest and most noted city of them all......but it was just another city to me...
I also didn't grow up where NYC was the gravitational city to move towards and I think that affects perception to. If I grew up in the Tri-State or the Northeast in general, I've seen myself from living Upstate the pull NYC has on people. But I didn't grow up where NYC was a must-see place, or people moving there in droves...
All that said, I'm sure I'll come back to visit one day, because I really wanna see Queens
. Too many people told me I seemed like "a Queens nikka", abd in general research of Queens it seems like a place of enjoy. I don't really have a desire to see any other borough though, I was supposed to be in The Bronx on 4th if July '14 but went to jail on June 26, fukked up my plans. But if I never see NYC again I'm good, it's not a bucket list thing...
And besides probably Queens I think I'd prefer Rochester, Buffalo, Syracuse over anywhere else in NY, but I spent more time in those places and they grew on me. I already know it's better for black folk in Queens than any of those cities, so Queens would be #1...