You're committing one of the cardinal sins of evolutionary studies; conflating the personal with the species-wide. If the species consisted of one animal, then yes, being homosexual would be the end of the species. But seeing as we're dealing with scale when we talk about evolution, homosexuality being present in the minimal rates that we see in humans and other species obviously doesn't destroy survival rates. Humans are still here and homosexuality has been present since the dawn of recorded time.
Of course children are free riders. It takes effort and resources to raise them, and they don't contribute equal, if any, productivity. They slow mobility and distract capable members of society from doing growth oriented tasks while requiring feeding, sheltering, increased protection from harm, etc. Human infants are a mix of precocial and altricial. You're exactly right when you classify them as an investment. Investments don't pay dividends immediately, only once they mature. Same with children. I know your argument is that homosexuality is a disability, which is why I'm providing examples of how it is in fact not necessarily a disability in both evolutionary and personal sense.
It's difficult but not impossible, because sexuality isn't a switch but rather a spectrum. If heterosexuality was heavily condemned by society and even punishable by death, you would see rates of homosexual
activity and
posturing increase. Just like gay people lived in the closet, so too would straight people. Humans are social creates, and societal influence is an incredibly powerful force. I'm not sure what medical procedure you're talking about. Homosexuals throughout history haven't undergone any sort of medical procedure to become heterosexual. If you're talking about those "pray the gay away" camps, that's a recent invention of the modern Christian ideology of the west. It's a phenomenon of the 20th century.
When you say things like "The more apt comparison of homosexuality and the inability to have children, but wanting to" and "They have the physical ability to do so, something mentally is wrong with them and they can not complete the action without suffering from psychological stress." are you not talking about the desire to create children through heterosexual intercourse? Because that's surely the dividing line between a heterosexual and a homosexual in this discussion, is it not? If the agoraphobic doesn't have a desire to go outside (unrelated to his fear of going outside), then he will experience no actual phobia. The phobia is only present when confronted with the object of fear; in this case, the public. The only way your analogy makes sense is if you believe that heterosexual intercourse and reproduction is akin to the outdoors. I'm saying that it is eminently possible to live a healthy and productive life without the former, but not without the latter. This is the basis for categorizing agoraphobia as a mental disorder, and homosexuality as simply a sexual orientation.
lol, what would make me even happier is if you admit that body dysmorphia is not an appropriate comparison to homosexuality and your use of it in this discussion is based on a flawed understanding of mental illness
Homosexuality is also quite rare and infrequent. But again, your mistake is conflating a biological design with an existential purpose. I think we'd all get a lot further is you simply cop to the fact you hold the erroneous belief that the the purpose of an individual's life can and should be derived by their bodily constraints. Your whole argument hinges on heterosexual intercourse and reproduction being something without which you suffer a diminished standard of life. You privilege the body over the mind. That's fine as a personal belief, but you must stop acting as if your opinion is based on any sort of objective or scientific consensus. There's a reason the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality from the DMS over 40 years ago. It simply doesn't match up with any of the standards for mental illness.
My argument is simple and consistent. It's the same argument used by the experts who study mental illness for a living. Homosexuals display no inherent discomfort, anxiety or lack of essential functionality due to their sexual orientation. Having the inclination to produce a child through heterosexual intercourse is not necessary to fulfil your individual life's purpose in any meaningful system of evolutionary science or ethical philosophy.
I brought Tim Cook up as an example of a prominent gay man who faces no discernible inherent hurdle or barrier to living a successful, productive life. It's an absurd leap to then think that any person who lives a successful, productive life must not have a disability. So i'll ask again, what inherent hurdle to living a successful, productive life has Tim Cook faced? I can point to the fact that Ray Charles got scammed due to his blindness so had to enact a system where he's paid in base level currency as an example of his disability. I can point to the fact that Stevie Wonder has to have a handler with him to physically guide him around as an example of his disability. I can point to the social toll Mozart's erratic mood swings and obsessive thoughts took on him as an example of his disability. I can point to the letters Beethoven wrote outlining the social and professional problems he suffered as caused by his deafness. All of these people would rather not have to deal with these circumstances. What is Tim Cook's equivalent? Not wanting to fukk women? Not even an inability to, but a lack of desire. Do you think gay people are just sitting there pining to be heterosexuals, only to be thwarted by their pesky sexual orientation? Let me ask you this: Do you believe that the more children you produce through heterosexual intercourse, the more successful your life is? Is this a sliding scale thing or is it just producing one child is enough to enter the successful club? If I could have had 10 children but only had 6, am I 6/10th of a success?
How am I conflating the personal with species wide? Fact is again, every species of living beings needs to reproduce, it is through the reproduction process we get the ability to see different traits that aid in survival of the environment, and it is through reproduction that those traits are able to be replicated through the line as a whole. It seems to me that again, you just ignored the very nature of what you are/were trying to use as a crutch and it makes your argument look weaker for it.
You can continue to try to apply poor economic theory to a question of mental health and you'll still fail for the previously mentioned reasons. I'm not arguing about why you think homosexuality is okay or should be accepted, the question is if homosexuality is a disorder, you aren't addressing the actual argument.
If sexuality is a spectrum or binary, it wouldn't change the fact that it is the heterosexuality is the only group that aligns with the body's designed reproduction process, homosexuality does not. As for your argument of homosexuality vs heterosexuality be mandated by society, you are actually arguing that homosexuality and heterosexuality are socially conditioned concepts, ie people aren't born that way, don't have a mental condition, but that it is purely a result of social conditioning, so your example supports my initial stance. I take it there is nothing more to argue since I've run you to my position?
No I'm not talking about desire to have children through normal sexual intercourse. Its a whole statement, try reading it wholly and its pretty simple concept. Homosexuals who want to procreate, like those who have agoraphobia and want to go into open spaces or open crowds, have the physical ability to do so, they have mental condition that stops them. Simple as that, there is nothing about wanting them to be heterosexuals implied or directly stated, you literally drew that concept out of thin air. You are wrong also about the phobia, it isn't just present with the stimulus, it is present about the condition, to the point most avoid the stimulus in the first place, such as not even going out at all so it will not be present. A person who is afraid of heights isn't just afraid of heights when they are elevating, the concept of heights scares them abstractly to the point they might avoid going places where they will be exposed to height, same with those afraid of dogs, and etc.
Body dysmorphia was used correctly though, unless you want to tell me how I was incorrect when you admitted you were the one who had little understanding of the concept and proceeded to lie about what it entailed in order to try to make a argument that fell apart when evaluated. I said homosexuality is a mental disorder like body dysmorphia, like autism, like etc, again you seem to want to do anything other than logically replay or logical build a sound argument.
Homosexuality being rare, generally estimated at 3% of the population isnt my argument. I'm never used its frequency as a argument. Again you use a strawman to save face. Again I never argue a moral imperative of life, I've stated clearly that my argument is from a purely biological statement, so to say I conflate moral argument with biological argument is a outright falsehood because I have not done so. So we have in the span of two sentences you presenting a false argument and lying outright. Then you claim we would converse better if I just simply agree to your view and accept it without question, even though you have been completely unable to actually support your stance with logical arguments nor logically refute my arguments to the counter without lying or using logical fallacies. No we won't agree because I find your reasoning and logic of your stance intellectually bankrupt.
Scientific consensus is that biologically we have a need for every living species to survive and procreate. I believe it was someone on your side that initially introduced evolutionary biology, not me, and as I've explained that supports my view. So scientifically, we don't have a consensus on the the underlying biological purpose of life, we have scientific fact that my stance is the biologically correct stance, you have to appeal to political discussion and consensus because your stance like the APA is politically motivated, not scientifically. DSM is also not the end all and be all of scientific inquiry, they removed homosexuality from a diagnosis not because research deciding the move, but as a result of a vote. That is the opposite of science back inquiry and standardization.
We've already exposed the fallacy of your logic with examples of others who are disabled, enjoying life and having no discomfort, yet still being disabled. Sterile humans enjoy life with no discomfort they can't reproduce because of physical issues, they are still suffers of a disability. Those on the autistic spectrum can live life in comfort, independently, yet they are the sufferers of a mental affliction. If your logic holds they are not disabled at all, when clearly they are because through to either physical issues or mental they can not process or act in manners consistant with how their body was designed, either in terms of social interaction or physical procreation. Homosexuals are no different, they are disabled in having children, if they want to they can't, if they don't want to they still can't.
You brought up Tim Cook, I brought up Ray Charles, Stevie Wonder, Mozart, all 3 suffer from disability and all 3 lived a life greater than the vast majority of the populace with their wealth and professional success. I even through in the partial deaf mozart, I can pull up some more on the austism scale if you want who are also professional successes who live comfortable lives. You pulling of Tim Cook being successful literally means nothing, Steve Wozniak built apple, he didn't just take it over, he is on the austic spectrum. So again you can ask your irrelevant question all you want, and you'll get the same answer. It does not matter if you believe a person suffered no problems, the issue isn't their ability to succeed or quality of life, its if their body and mind function properly. homosexuals mind, if it is a result of a mental condition, simply does not fuction properly and it is self evident in terms of their body being physically designed for sexual relations with the opposite sex.