Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)

[3rdWorld]

You heard it here, folks. Black children *must* be beaten or else they will kill themselves due to inherent negro retardation.

Some people believe that beating kids makes them worse because they get used to the beatings and simply look to avoid getting caught, but still misbehaving.
The kids I see today not getting beat are completely out of line with understanding authority. These kids are reckless, doing and speaking to their single mothers as they choose with no repercussions. Though this is due to a man's firm grip being absent in the household. It took my sister finally losing it and beating her son for him to see he couldn't keep taking school work lightly. Discipline may not just come from a branch, belt or cord, but from a stable home environment which many dont have.

 

[Blackking]

Exactly. Detroit and Chicago are fukked up from kids not being beaten, not because of generations of conditioned inferiority, poverty, lack of role models, lack of education, neighborhoods pumped full of drugs, weapons, zero hope for the future.

it's all of those things, plus not proper discipline......... beating is just one way, but not the only way. it's foolish to treat each kid the same.

Beatings don't work, you telling me all the hardcore criminals in prison their parents never laid a hand on them? The reality is it's the total opposite, their parents were not doubt overly zealous with the belt, fist, and maybe boot. Beating your children doesn't make them respect you either, they fear you and later in life they resent you and don't give two shyts when sancho is slapping you around at the old folks home and you are drowning in your own piss and shyt.

My dad used to hit me, Iam white by the way, what I hated the most ,was my mother telling me to go upstairs after I had done whatever I had done, and then waiting hours for him to get home, when he finally did get home, I would listen to my mother telling in exaggerated terms what I had done, making him ever angrier ,then he would go upstairs and beat the shyt out of me. It was the waiting I hated most rather than the beating,or when my brother got in trouble and I had to listen to his cries,my younger brother got it worse than me because I was always the 'favourite' ,I just got it more often because I was in trouble more, setting fires, swearing at teachers, fighting.

. I also resented my mother, after he had done, coming into my room and acting all concerned at the bruises on my buttocks and back, and then going after my dad, and being angry with him, saying he had gone too far. What? it was her that wound him up in the first place, he had been at work all day, he had been drinking with his mates in the pub and then comes home to a screeching wife, telling him about his disobedient son..... What did she think was going to happen?

So , what exactly did that teach me? I carried on getting into trouble, and thanks to my genetics by the time I was just 14 I was bigger than my dad, and one time ,he came in my room, after my mothers snitched ,he backhanded me across the mouth ,and I slammed him against a wall and choked,him out,he was going purple when my mother came in and I stopped due to her screams , He never laid a hand on me again(he did my brother though), and I did whatever I wanted, ,he did tell me though,that if I touched him again, he would do me with an iron bar...

I still love my father despite, the feelings I have, but I will never ,ever touch one of my own children,this shyt runs through families, my grandfather was much worse than my dad, my grandad used a dog lead and would beat my father for nothing ,at least I had actually been naughty.The weird thing was,I got on better with my grandad than I did my dad,despite how violent he was, he never touched me. I plan to break the cycle, and if I have a wife, who nags me to beat my child, she will be out on her ass.

So it's not just Black children who get beat. And it is just as'effective' in the results... Why would you hurt a child you feed ,clothe and supposedly love? It has the opposite effect, I never have choked anyone else out apart from my father that one time, If I had been a bit stronger I would have killed him.

you're not being real.


I barely even got hit AT ALL. I probably can remember 3 whoopings. but the fear of getting one, sometimes kept me in line. I was the type you could talk to. My lil brother was the type that would not listen............. so he got his ass beat ALL the TIME. and hes well balance and a successful adult now. I'm so grateful to my parents for BEATING his ASS.

I have 4sons, 1 daughter.

My daughter does shyt sometimes that DESERVES an ass whooping, lol but I don't beat her, because she'd take it as mean, and she is the type you can talk to.

1 son------ taking something from him is worse than a ass whooping.
1 son, my oldest....... I beat his ass madddd times. He is good now and i doubt i'd ever had to again.
other kids I probably never will hit in any way. Its not neccessary.


my oldest though...... hes low key drops knowledge on the rest. He got those beatings and knows what will happen if someone crosses that line.
none of them cross that line, besides my daughter........... but that's because she's independently minded and a beating wouldn't help her.


you just have to know what to do. an ass whooping should never be off the table, that's ridiculous. Black people been on that since Long Before contact with CACS

 

[Dameon Farrow]

i used to hang out with my cousins in the suburbs and we'd find a random rich persons house and if nobody was in it we'd go in and start smashing shyt or stealing anything that wasn't nailed down. or we'd ride around smashing people's directv dishes or go to the malls stealing clothes. i even went through this phase where we'd steal car emblems.
stupid ass shyt and like i said time outs, being "grounded" or doing "extra chores" wasn't going to prevent me from doing it
it was only until my dad put the hand of God on me that i was like aight maybe i need to stop i can't take another one of these thrashings.

According to the bleeding hearts who think kids are on the level of adults, you doing hard time for your escapades would have been a much more humane alternative.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

man cacs got u thinking when they say spank they put the word beat like nikkas are throwin hands on their kids to their heads or throwin them

me and another nikkas kno its a belt on sum butt or a hand
or a object that they can grab


so im guessin u neva got that belt

yep. No middle ground. Thread should have ended right here. When these clowns jump up and say you shouldn't beat your kids what they mean is you shouldn't chastise your kids. And now we don't have paddllng in schools. I look at school now vs when I was in. Behavior was much better then than now. You kats throwing around these studies like you don't have eyes and common sense. Go talk to a teacher in a school system breh. All they do with these kids is send them to some alternative school for a few days where they bs around and are likely surrounded by their friends. They don't fear getting in trouble.

It's all a push to get rid of brick and mortar institution anyway and push all schooling to be online. That and Common Core. They inject initiatives that work poorly and then jump up and say, "Ah ha! See! These institutions need to be changed up! They can't respond to change!" Working fine so far.

Being both the solution and the problem is a politics staple throughout the ages.

Political solutions, brehs.

They have some hits but it's mostly misses.

 

[iBrowse]

Bullshyt. Got my ass whooped as a kid and Im a better person for it. there's a difference between a traditional African American beating and abuse. These white kids out chea telling their parents to suck there dikk and shyt. I got my ass whooped as a kid and as an adult I'm strong, I'm honest and ima hard worker. I don't plan on hitting my kids, but I don't see the problem with parents who do as long as you're not abusing them.

My GPA and Bank Account and strength and will all came from getting my ass whooped. My parents ain't here no more and I'm still prepared for life.

While you got these cac kids who ain't never been thru shyt that are jumping off roofs and shooting up schools because their parents got divorced

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Yea lets raise our kids like cacs with timeouts n leashes in malls

Lets do what johnny manziels parents did and give our kids incentives like camaros etc

I remember the first time I saw this in person I was literally like ....people really do this?

I thought they were in movies when I saw it. No bs. My parents left me at the store once when I ran off when I wasn't supposed to. I never did that shyt again. That was the worst feeling ever. I appreciate that tough love though.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Its arguable that kids today are better than kids n the 70s,80s and 90s, so that whooping shyt is really out the window. There is literally no proof it has a positive effect.

This kat @BrothaZay just doesn't stop.

You still on the beats man? Anything recent?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Hitting your kids should be a last resort, but to say it shouldn't be a resort at all is PRECISELY the problem why kids are getting worse now. People want to say "don't beat your kids it instills fear, or doesn't teach them wrong it just makes them fearful of whippings." and it is true to some degree. This is why it should be used sparingly, it only takes one good beating to let them know there is a line not to be crossed. But I would love to see people who advocate this actually raise a kid without a speck of violence and see how long it takes to get bytch slapped by your own kid.

This is how it was in the vast vast majority of households when I was coming up and I'm sure it's the norm period. But you see how OP glossed over your post and posts like it. No middle ground allowed in these types of discussions. It's like this in real life. And folks that say if you don't have kids you won't understand are right. I have none but I worked in a school system. You can tell who has a fear of repercussions and who doesn't. It's easy to say what some of you say when you are on the outside looking in. As someone who's childless even I"m on the outside in a way but I've been in the field so to speak. Them trenches ain't playing.

 

[Y2Dre]

Beat your kids, just don't leave marks on them.

that's the rule.

 

[Kufismack]

This is how it was in the vast vast majority of households when I was coming up and I'm sure it's the norm period. But you see how OP glossed over your post and posts like it. No middle ground allowed in these types of discussions. It's like this in real life. And folks that say if you don't have kids you won't understand are right. I have none but I worked in a school system. You can tell who has a fear of repercussions and who doesn't. It's easy to say what some of you say when you are on the outside looking in. As someone who's childless even I"m on the outside in a way but I've been in the field so to speak. Them trenches ain't playing.

nikka I WASN'T BEAT I repeat, I WASN'T beat and I support it, because I introspect and see things I do(messes ups, mistakes) and realize it has partly to do with the fact that I wasn't beat. But I have a level enough head to catch myself and chip at correcting my actions. A lot of these kids don't have that. Which is why I also agree with the guy that said "it's not universal, some kids need it some don't".

But to simply flat out say it shouldn't be an option mostly likely shows that you either don't have a kid or you do but s/he calling you by your first name.

 

[G-Zeus]

If you can't punish a 6 year old without beating him, you already lost.

yo my boy is 6..

i dont whoop his ass but once in a while he get a light to good spanking (use my hands.. no objects)

dude will style on me when he see i dont mean my threats..


me: "Dame.. come here."

.....

me: "Dame.. come here."

him : ..... "whaaaaaaaaat"

me : "what did i tell you, go take a shower"

him : ..whaaaat whaaaaaaaaat okaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy....*goes back to toy room

me: ..boy imma spank you if you dont listen

him : ..................

me:


but after a couple of weeks...he usually gets one good spanking shot (3 max)

him ..........................................

 

[plushcarpet]

spanking your kid a few times for touching a hot stove is not the same as beating the shyt out of your kid

most people will never understand that because they're aggressive brutes

many studies have already been done that show beating your kids is one of, if not the worst, thing possible for society, not just for the kid

that's why when i see a single mother hitting her kid, i already know that soul is too far gone

 

[Breh13]

Got disciplined a few times when I was young.

Some kids don't listen and little bit of discipline can go a long way.

There are some kids who are just born . Good luck to those parents.


End of the day it's up to the parent and I would never condone stupid unfiltered beatings some parents administer. That kind of punishment serves nothing but harm.

 

[SirReginald]

JudgeJoeGorilla 's post received the following reputation(s)

1. -10
   Given: A moment ago
   Dip commented: (Stop)

I got negged for a thread I DIDN'T EVEN BUMP This was made in 2015 I mean WTF?

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Deuteronomy 8:5 Thou shalt also consider in thine heart, that, as a man chasteneth his son,so the LORD thy God chasteneth thee.
Proverbs 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
Proverbs 19:18 Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.
Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Proverbs 23:13-14 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
Proverbs 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.

Sirach [Ecclesiasticus] 30:1He who loves his son will whip him often, so that he may rejoice in the way he turns out. He who disciplnes his son will profit by him, and will boast about him among acquaintances

Sirach [Ecclesiasticus] 30:12Bow down his neck while he is young, and beat his sides while he is a child, lest he grow stubborn, and regard thee not, and so be a sorrow of heart to thee.