regardless of drunk driving or not he was talking about almost dying and his girl thinking he might be beat the fukk up after the accident...so he mentioned him as a reference...i don't take Kanye's delivery of that line as him trying to make light of the situation cause there are people who come out of accidents looking that bad.
maybe he shouldn't have mentioned his name but even still it's nowhere near wayne's reference
wayne's shyt was just disrespectful and making light of the situation
you dont get it, that's fine