My personal issue with this mentality is that its a microcosm of straight up ignorance in regards to entrepreneurship, being a working professional, and overall wealth..and how this toxic ass perception (mostly fueled by social media birds and hustlers) is expanding and leaking over into relationship.
1. First lets cut the bullshyt: she knows damn well that shes asking for a rich man who operates on his own time and will spoil her and take trips to Santorini every other Tuesday. Which is her preference, fine but that man doesnt exist in large numbers (especially Black Men). And even if he did, and liked her, she would be this weeks toy, then on to the next.
2. She knows damn well that she secretly thinks less of 9-5 men. Bottom line. As many brehs in here have said more eloquently, these mafukkas are obsessed with the idea of easy money with no obligations. They really think *you re not a hustler* if youre not a multi millionaire entrepreneur before 40 and be generating passive income like its nothing. They really think all entrepreneurs are balling and work "when they want".
They probably think 9-5ers are all worker drones who make shyt wages. I guess in some ways it makes sense as most " social media personalities" left the work force before they were 25 and dont know of any professional workers outside of actors and Ball players. With that said my concern is, a lot of the youth adopts this attitude (especially young women) and spend their prime chasing a hustle instead of refining a skill.
3. Which leads to my last point...Theres a lot of steady money to be made "not being a boss". People need to understand this. Being the boss isnt all its cracked up to be. And being on the clock is sometimes the easiest money one can make. If you put in the work in certain key fields, you can be out here bringing home more than enough money, working on your time, and not even be in management.
Mentally ill....
