B. Simone : I don’t want a regular 9-5 nikka, “ He wouldn’t understand my lifestyle”

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Brother Floyd laid to rest today
Protests still going on
Slave trader statues going down domestically internationally
Police reform ball is rolling
'Rona still running rampant



...and the top trending topic on the coli today is some c-list celebrity's dating preference.

smh

I'm coming to the realization that the reason brehs are always triggered by threads like this is because at least 60% of the dudes here get rejected by women a lot...

so when they come to the coli, they get this little echo chamber where they can air out their grievances and frustrations with women.... and instead of working on themselves and becoming better versions of who they are, they would rather sulk and simp.

I been there, so i know how they feel. Im trying to help them see the error of their ways but it's hard. These brehs are in a defeatist mindset at this point.

 

[SoulController]

own my own shop...happens to be open 9-5

theres no wrong way to hustle, comments like hers make me think she aint been much of a grinder for long. you can get shyt done towards something bigger working a 9-5, its not a damning sentence to work weekdays smh

being a real entrepreneur requires more than social media saavy for most people, it takes strong credit and tons of money to open a business. and that takes time to build

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

That's her prerogative


Just how some brehs want a chick with no kids, her degree & stable income

 

[Marc Spector]

My personal issue with this mentality is that its a microcosm of straight up ignorance in regards to entrepreneurship, being a working professional, and overall wealth..and how this toxic ass perception (mostly fueled by social media birds and hustlers) is expanding and leaking over into relationship.

1. First lets cut the bullshyt: she knows damn well that shes asking for a rich man who operates on his own time and will spoil her and take trips to Santorini every other Tuesday. Which is her preference, fine but that man doesnt exist in large numbers (especially Black Men). And even if he did, and liked her, she would be this weeks toy, then on to the next.

2. She knows damn well that she secretly thinks less of 9-5 men. Bottom line. As many brehs in here have said more eloquently, these mafukkas are obsessed with the idea of easy money with no obligations. They really think *you re not a hustler* if youre not a multi millionaire entrepreneur before 40 and be generating passive income like its nothing. They really think all entrepreneurs are balling and work "when they want".

They probably think 9-5ers are all worker drones who make shyt wages. I guess in some ways it makes sense as most " social media personalities" left the work force before they were 25 and dont know of any professional workers outside of actors and Ball players. With that said my concern is, a lot of the youth adopts this attitude (especially young women) and spend their prime chasing a hustle instead of refining a skill.

3. Which leads to my last point...Theres a lot of steady money to be made "not being a boss". People need to understand this. Being the boss isnt all its cracked up to be. And being on the clock is sometimes the easiest money one can make. If you put in the work in certain key fields, you can be out here bringing home more than enough money, working on your time, and not even be in management.

 

[MMA]

Funny because when I think "Entrepreneur" I think of poor time management and always busy doing nothing. I prefer a guy that prioritizes work, dating, life, etc and balances his schedule accordingly.

I feel attacked

 

[deep]

My personal issue with this mentality is that its a microcosm of straight up ignorance in regards to entrepreneurship, being a working professional, and overall wealth..and how this toxic ass perception (mostly fueled by social media birds and hustlers) is expanding and leaking over into relationship.

1. First lets cut the bullshyt: she knows damn well that shes asking for a rich man who operates on his own time and will spoil her and take trips to Santorini every other Tuesday. Which is her preference, fine but that man doesnt exist in large numbers (especially Black Men). And even if he did, and liked her, she would be this weeks toy, then on to the next.

2. She knows damn well that she secretly thinks less of 9-5 men. Bottom line. As many brehs in here have said more eloquently, these mafukkas are obsessed with the idea of easy money with no obligations. They really think *you re not a hustler* if youre not a multi millionaire entrepreneur before 40 and be generating passive income like its nothing. They really think all entrepreneurs are balling and work "when they want".

They probably think 9-5ers are all worker drones who make shyt wages. I guess in some ways it makes sense as most " social media personalities" left the work force before they were 25 and dont know of any professional workers outside of actors and Ball players. With that said my concern is, a lot of the youth adopts this attitude (especially young women) and spend their prime chasing a hustle instead of refining a skill.

3. Which leads to my last point...Theres a lot of steady money to be made "not being a boss". People need to understand this. Being the boss isnt all its cracked up to be. And being on the clock is sometimes the easiest money one can make. If you put in the work in certain key fields, you can be out here bringing home more than enough money, working on your time, and not even be in management.

the most coherent post in this thread.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

she just became a millionaire this year

she made it clear why, i fail to see whats wrong?

most 9-5's don't allow you to get up and go the way she does

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[Arcavian]

You know what...

She's absolutely right

As a 9 to 5 cat... Can't keep up with these type of women

That said....


1 star for posting ho-babble

 

[Wild self]

Why yall stay getting mad at women talk about thier standards... like we aren't even suppose to have those and how dare we have them. I sometimes feel like yall feel entitled to women. But yall ain't going to address that though .

The standards are superficial and always ends badly. A foundation cannot last, if it is built on excess material items.

 

[frush11]

She has a point, if you in that world, its hard for someone who isn't to date a person who is.

2 different lifestyles, and its takes a secure asss person to be in a relationship with someone like her. Regardless of the dynamic.

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

The standards are superficial and always ends badly. A foundation cannot last, if it is built on excess material items.

But the reason why divorse happens nine times out of ten is due to money problems......

 

[Youseenmywork]

She wants what she wants, just like any of us...getting (and KEEPING) it is a different story

That is a VERY small percentage of men, black men in particular.

My fiance and I doing marriage counseling now with our pastor, and he was telling us people gotta stop looking for a "match" as it comes to status, or money or job and look for a "match" in terms of characteristics...
Will they be loyal? Will they treat me right? Can they be a real man/woman? Cuz that entrepreneur she chasing can have all the money but be a bad fit...or treat her horribly...or look to use her for his own benefit...while that stable "job-having" cat
would be the best thing in her life and FOR her life...but go ahead and chase what you wanna sis...

I guess I'm older, so I look less at looks (I mean, I ain't messin with no ugmos lol)but I care MUCH more about what's INSIDE a woman, that makes her "ugly" or "beautiful" just as much as what she look like...

Hope she find what she looking for

I disagree as a christian man this some bull diggty . The reason is most young men are taught about being a stand up men/man and how to be moral and character based . Most men are raised by they mommy. If momma would have told the truth about women's nature ...she would have told you to work on your body game and most importantly sex appeal and sexual charisma. If anything women are taught HOW to manipulate you because they most of us is rasied by momma. This is because women know if she wants to sleep with you when she see you. Men will always be behind the 8 ball because as I have said on the coil many times women arent attracted to a man from a MORALLY standpoint or from a CHARACTER standpoint they dont gage it like we do. From a mans standpoint we think it should be this way but its the other way. Satan greatest trick was convincing people he didn't existence ....women's greatest trick was getting men to believe that men NEEDED ALLLLLLLLLL this game and its just not so. They the ones that choose and nikkas be simpin and jumping threw hopes for women like the above and she not even worth it . NOOO she is not like a man a man is a lot more ....rational when it comes to women hell men for the most part are realistic women on the other hand not so much , until life humbles them . Women want the car right off the show room floor .......men are willing to put options in the vehicle after we buy.

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

There’s a war going outside and these hoes still posting babble

 

[Youseenmywork]

There’s a war going outside and these hoes still posting babble

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