Ozymandeas
Veteran
Because dating someone with non violent arrests doesn’t mean you deserve to die.
Obviously. But still don’t be a dumbass and date someone with multiple arrests when there’s plenty of men who have no record.
Because dating someone with non violent arrests doesn’t mean you deserve to die.
no one has said she deserved to die. I don’t know where you’re getting that from.
Are you playing stupid or do you really not understand that nobody is defending him? You guys want to hold her accountable for her death and we’re asking why. First you said she should date a guy on her level when you thought he was broke, then you found out he has a career, a business, and lives in her building now you’re saying that she should have done a background check on him(you’re assuming she didn’t). Youre saying she should have chose better but on the outside he was pretty good, maybe she decided to do a background check and saw something she didn’t like. Or do you think they were in there having a jolly good time and he decided to murder her?
Oh excuse me, you just have no sympathy for her.
Obviously. But still don’t be a dumbass and date someone with multiple arrests when there’s plenty of men who have no record.
Pls tell me why you assume she knew about it from the beginning especially since his job and his living situation more than likely did background checks on him and saw no issues.
You making assumptions and lying at the same time. What career are you talking about? UPS supervisor? That isn’t a career.
And she is STILL dating down. You don’t even understand what that means because you probably do the same shyt.
You and others have tried your best to humanize the dude and I some retarded despicable way make him seem like a catch to push this narrative that he was this great guy that snapped and mental illness and all that other shyt.
the broad didn’t deserve to die just like many people who lack judgement and end up paying the price.
so enough with the bullshyt. I know what I’ve said in this thread, you and others keep putting words in my mouth.
there are some small, dumb crimes even college kids will do in their youth that dont amount to being a real thug. if all he did was drive off with some gas years ago, that would not be the kind of thing that would alarm a reasonable woman about dating a man.
RIP to the victim
What Im saying is, how does any of his crimes equate to him being a potential killer? Its one thing if he had a violent past but thats not the case here. So how would she know he's capable of the kind of violence he did EVEN if she did a background check and found out what he did?Again, y’all trying your damndest to make this man into a model citizen. It’s pathetic.
I didn’t blame her for the murder but she did date down. She dated a lame and realized it when it was too late.
but y’all trying too damn hard man. He was a degenerate and while you feel his run ins with the law are no big deal, they’re a big deal to me. Y’all would make some great character references for him.
breh was a lame ass clark kent type nikka that turned into psycho man, jumping from balcony to balcony in a single bound
R.I.P to the middle aged lady tho
Alot of black women (& men) are emotionally immature when it comes to picking a mate for the wrong reasons.She knows how to practice law at a premier law firm, but gets goofy when it comes to picking a man. A man with a reckless history, which seem to have a pattern of escalating every year.
Black women are not vetting properly. Instead of thinking with their mind, they think with their ovaries.
Makes no sense. This should of never happened.
And what if he told her about his past from jump? Y’all really going hard with these assumptions...
Please tell me you’re joking
Making up shyt? Lying? Yes it is considered a career ( an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person's life and with opportunities for progress.)
And don’t try to spin this shyt on me, I dated way up with my husband.
You keep trying to make it seem like we’re doing this for him because you want so badly to blame this black woman for her death. Nobody is trying to humanize or have sympathy for him YOU guys are trying to make it seem like this woman sought out a psycho and played a role in her own death.
Nobody said he was great we’re saying that he didn’t set off alarms on the surface, you want so badly to make it that she had poor dating choices, bad judgement etc but you don’t know if she was breaking up with him or not. You keep saying how she should have done a background check but you don’t know if she did or not. Nobody is defending him and you know that.