You're way too attached to this. It's actually sad, to be honest. You keep talking about 5 months. WTF does that matter? I'm done with this conversation...
You're arguing something completely different. You can't tell who will be a murderer, but you CAN remove yourself from hanging out with certain people. She was dating way down and that's really all that needs to be said. It's called risk mitigation. I don't expect a child to understand but certainly an adult.
I all it like I see it across the board.
We all know the responses would be different if you changed the race of the victim and the murderer.
"Jarrette's jail history here in Baldwin County is relatively brief, and all three of his arrests were for non-violent statutes. Listed with an an address in the Allenwood neighborhood across from BHS in each of his arrest reports, Jarrette was arrested in 2007 for driving away without paying for gas. Five years later, meanwhile, he was booked for reckless driving and seatbelt violation, and then in 2017 he was arrested for DUI."
You are wrong on this one. If a white person was to assume a brother was a no good thug based on the above, what would the response be? What we are seeing is a classic example of confirmation bias.
You have bias towards anyone who has been arrested. Mentally you do not consider the nature of the crime, the person's age, and people's capacity to change. Because of your bias, any example of someone who was arrested doing the worst is used as the standard.
I can't fault her based on his arrest record. It doesn't scream homicidal maniac. It just looks like someone who didn't make the best choices in his early 20s.