It’s cool. A few men in this thread and on this site confirmed what I said and how it goes down with these “one-sided arrangements” men have with their wives.
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At What Income Level Is a Man Entitled to a Mistress?
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Oh, my bad breh.say sorry
Y'all so corny.
But what if she's okay with it?But having a mistress isn't?
BFFR. Y'all are very unserious people.
I agree it's not always straightforward. With that said, if I'm in a sexless loving marriage but we've agreed to maintain the illusion for our kids, financial reasons etc and I have a side piece, I'm perfectly fine with my husband doing the same
That's my problem with these mistress scenarios, 95% of man aren't willing to give their wife that same grace. I can't be out here getting my bells jingled but think and or demand my husband to remain loyal to me. That's the epitome of selfishness
There's dudes out here with fetishes for letting their wife get fukked by other men
So why is it bad in reverse?
Entitled is wild 
Funny enough i have a former college classmate who recently had the courage to reveal his gf on his social media... only thing peculiar is he's been married for 10 years, but the wife is well aware of the gf and arrangement. The post was more-so them no longer hiding their lifestyle. The plot twist of course is he and his wife are in an open relationship, with neither wanting kids.
Caught me off guard bc he's your typical nerdy gamer white guy with a upper middle class job but obvously they've been on some freaky hippy ish. So yea, to me it's not an income thing and "entitled" is a wild way to frame it lol. But if the question is more-so: what condition can you have a mistress or side chick, have your wife be well aware, and not feel resentment...? Well, for sure if you two are a freaky ass swinger couple.
That said, I don't keep track of them like that nor are they frequent social media posters, but i guess it'll be interesting how they'll be in 10-20 years, etc., with that arrangement.
Funny enough i have a former college classmate who recently had the courage to reveal his gf on his social media... only thing peculiar is he's been married for 10 years, but the wife is well aware of the gf and arrangement. The post was more-so them no longer hiding their lifestyle. The plot twist of course is he and his wife are in an open relationship, with neither wanting kids.
Caught me off guard bc he's your typical nerdy gamer white guy with a upper middle class job but obvously they've been on some freaky hippy ish. So yea, to me it's not an income thing and "entitled" is a wild way to frame it lol. But if the question is more-so: what condition can you have a mistress or side chick, have your wife be well aware, and not feel resentment...? Well, for sure if you two are a freaky ass swinger couple.
That said, I don't keep track of them like that nor are they frequent social media posters, but i guess it'll be interesting how they'll be in 10-20 years, etc., with that arrangement.
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Like i said before, humans are serial monogamist but to have a proper society/community compromises have been made.. Sounds like everyone wants their cake and eat it too..But this is the thing- y’all act like women wouldn’t benefit from having a side dude as well.
Y’all think you are a pleasure to be around 24/7?? If you wife could sneak off and have moments with a man who can do things you can’t do, without having to clean the house, prepare his meals, wash his clothes, deal with his attitude when he comes home from a bad day at work, playing her role and being a present in-law in her hubby’s family by helping to care for his aging parents, being a good aunt to kids who might be unappreciative, etc. She needs a moment to get her back cracked too!
But naaaaaaw that would be wrong.
The point is EVERYONE would be happy to have someone fun on the side who doesn’t come with obligations.
But that’s what TF marriage is. And that’s what you sign up for when you sign that marriage license.
It’s understandable when a man “needs a break” or “someone new” but it’s unheard of that a woman might be dealing with similar stresses in a committed relationship.
Just dont complain at the consequences when the person finds out and they didnt know about their one side agreement.
skyrunner1
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nikkas be LAWST..And yall really be believing this shyt too.
You definitely don't know women.
THAT’S WHAT I’M SAYING!!
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I don't think income matters. Didn't some broke dude go viral last year for having several BMs?
They confirmed what you said because you know men are men, and women are women, and not the same. We all know that already.It’s cool. A few men in this thread and on this site confirmed what I said and how it goes down with these “one-sided arrangements” men have with their wives.
It’s all good
These arrangements aren't "one sided" when economically capable women are requiring/demanding/allowing men to pay 80-100% of the bills. You also quoted to this
To say this
Emphasizing your own understanding of relationships being driven by what a man's income is. Which is in line for how you view the financial workings of relationships.And about 92% of men make under that certain amount
I was being facetious.
My entire point has been making a lot of money doesn’t mean you’re allowed to cheat.
If that’s the case if every beautiful woman got married super young, would that give her permission to continue attempting to find a richer and richer man for as long as she can, simply because she can attract them?
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Are we talmbout before or after the wife takes half that shyt in a divorce