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SheWantTheD

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You ain't truly part of pretty nikka clique unless bytches approach you breh.


Like a young Lance Gross out here :banderas:

#lifestyle :wow:
Where women approaching you at? club and bar don't count. I've had chicks stand near me or right beside me, but I can't recall much direct approaches. I don't count a chick calling you cute to your face as you walk past them as approaching tho.
 

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idk in high school I kept to myself outside a close group of friends. People did question my sexuality like asking me if I ever kissed a girl, had sex etc but I did holla at chicks tho. I had a mysterious vibe to most chicks. And I did get the arrogant thing, but it ain't the same for women. Women can be very catty and many of y'all place a lot of value on your looks. So it's a given a chick might be accused of being a hoe just for talking to a dude or because she's very attractive.

I wasn't hollering at every chick to have rumors about me being a player. And at the school I'm at now it's like 40k people on this campus.

I had to tell that guy to chill and not to stress over it. It was mentally fukking him up because some people close to him even asked him on his sexuality. Nothing aside from him being attractive would make someone assume he is gay. He was very masculine and posts and talks about nothing but women.

I have some friends who do consider some men "too pretty" and for that will say he is probably gay until proven otherwise. Sometimes too pretty to the point that they think he's butt ugly.

What I've noticed generally is women aren't so much hung on looks as in everything else and how the package is put together. How he dresses, speaks, his past, his beliefs, if he's a leader, sometimes how other women may view him, how his demeanor is, strength/roughness. Being a cute/handsome guy alone won't get you far. It can get women far though.
 

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I agree but disagree. Men do the approaching. Most women ain't really on that aggressive tip to where they are running game on dudes to trap'em. They do it more so subtly and indirectly. You still gotta approach. And if you are up on game, you know what type of chicks to avoid.

Being a multi millionaire is on a different level though. Women will leave their numbers on your windshield if you drive a sports car. That shyt is easy as hell.

When I say "get to them", I meant like the way you mentioned; indirectly. Shallow females put themselves in a handsome guy's line of sight faster and more thirstily then quality females. In the same way, gold diggers would put themselves in a rich guy's line of sight before a quality chick.
 

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Also if a guy is into himself/knows he's handsome and fixates on it, a lot of women won't find him attractive. Modesty is key.

Women can get away with being conceited (at least to a certain degree).
 

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I had to tell that guy to chill and not to stress over it. It was mentally fukking him up because some people close to him even asked him on his sexuality. Nothing aside from him being attractive would make someone assume he is gay. He was very masculine and posts and talks about nothing but women.

I have some friends who do consider some men "too pretty" and for that will say he is probably gay until proven otherwise. Sometimes too pretty to the point that they think he's butt ugly.

What I've noticed generally is women aren't so much hung on looks as in everything else and how the package is put together. How he dresses, speaks, his past, his beliefs, if he's a leader, sometimes how other women may view him, how his demeanor is, strength/roughness. Being a cute/handsome guy alone won't get you far. It can get women far though.
yeah I was volunteering a couple months ago and we were building a garage. Me and this dude were shooting the shyt, talking, laughing, having fun while working. And a group of girls a couple feet away are watching us, and one says "I thought they were gay". That shyt ain't make no sense to me and I don't know why she said that but ight.

I don't really have an issue with all that. I don't like it when dudes check me out though. And for some reason good looking dudes like to compare themselves with other good looking dudes, size them up, one up them etc.
 
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