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Do you have feelings? Like can you feel sad, happy, mad, frustrated?

Can you tell those feelings in others??

Can you tell if you hurt someone's feelings?

What are the kind of things you do to fit in?
Ex. Do you try to make small talk with someone, even though you are not really interested in whatever they have to say.

Do you get focused on a particular item/topic/interest? Do you try to suppress that interest or let your mind explore it?
Ex. Say you suddenly get an interest in bridges and want to learn everything about them. I am going to assume that would take up your time, since you have other things to do.



Thanks for answering our questions btw.
 

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Do you have feelings? Like can you feel sad, happy, mad, frustrated?

Can you tell those feelings in others??

Can you tell if you hurt someone's feelings?

What are the kind of things you do to fit in?
Ex. Do you try to make small talk with someone, even though you are not really interested in whatever they have to say.

Do you get focused on a particular item/topic/interest? Do you try to suppress that interest or let your mind explore it?
Ex. Say you suddenly get an interest in bridges and want to learn everything about them. I am going to assume that would take up your time, since you have other things to do.



Thanks for answering our questions btw.
Extreme emotions. I'm just unable to let them all out. One of the key symptoms of Asperger's is the difficulty to express your own emotions and read others. An aspie can look strong but could be barely hanging on there. I am, however, getting better at it and I can express my feelings a lot better than I was when I was 12.

I have lots of special interests (art, music, history, travel etc.) and I make time to read all about them during the evenings after school/work and nights before I go to bed. During the day, I'm on my grind.
 
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I like to think that aspergers saved his life
he was smart enough and wired differently enough to transcend the group thinking and peer pressure of his peers
ultimately, he realized no one is owed anything in this world and what does he owe the streets?
so he bounced and went to Cali because he realized he would inevitably die in Chicago if not by an opp then via backdoor:dame: by a jealous friend or gang member
don't trust anyone obviously
he took heat for it but probably did nothing to him because he was too happy with the big picture
he won :yeshrug:
 

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I'm a music head so stimming to it is my specialty:blessed:. I used to dance in any instance of good music- whether it's bopping my head and humming to it in public or going all out and pulling a Tom Cruise in Risky Business at home. Music is my recipe, dawg!
Tf is stimming
 

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Being aspie just being awkward usually as a teen and still doing occasional rookie mistakes as a young adult because socializing is hard so you’re playing catch up at times? I’m talking for people like me who might have it but don’t eccentric shyt in public.

I suspect I have this but at the same time I had the lowest self esteem and anxiety from like 13-21. I lost my virginity at like 18 and can present day get tinder matches. It doesn’t mean shyt to me. I still feel lonely. I’m 26 and can still be shy at times. I have vastly improved throughout the years. Still suck with women, I have gotten better at flirting. In the end I’m boring outside of jokes and initial excitement in the beginning. Even if the sex is good I can’t keep a girl long term. I recently made peace with that fact.

Please nobody tell me their is somebody for everyone or God will send her. It’s ok if I die alone idc anymore.

Currently i find myself usually in more in a state of just being uncomfortable when theirs too many strangers like if it’s a small house party or the club. I feel fine at bars and restaurants though. I just felt like I never fit in, even if I’m being funny. I use humor as a mechanism to hide how boring and quiet I am. I have a lot of interests but none are really cool to share like being a hip hop head and shyt like that.
 

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Being aspie just being awkward usually as a teen and still doing occasional rookie mistakes as a young adult because socializing is hard so you’re playing catch up at times? I’m talking for people like me who might have it but don’t eccentric shyt in public.

I suspect I have this but at the same time I had the lowest self esteem and anxiety from like 13-21. I lost my virginity at like 18 and can present day get tinder matches. It doesn’t mean shyt to me. I still feel lonely. I’m 26 and can still be shy at times. I have vastly improved throughout the years. Still suck with women, I have gotten better at flirting. In the end I’m boring outside of jokes and initial excitement in the beginning. Even if the sex is good I can’t keep a girl long term. I recently made peace with that fact.

Please nobody tell me their is somebody for everyone or God will send her. It’s ok if I die alone idc anymore.

Currently i find myself usually in more in a state of just being uncomfortable when theirs too many strangers like if it’s a small house party or the club. I feel fine at bars and restaurants though. I just felt like I never fit in, even if I’m being funny. I use humor as a mechanism to hide how boring and quiet I am. I have a lot of interests but none are really cool to share like being a hip hop head and shyt like that.
You sound a lot like me honestly. I struggle with social interaction so much that I don't like talking to people. I say visit a psychiatrist who can give you a proper diagnosis. A lot more people are walking around with autism than we think.
 

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You sound a lot like me honestly. I struggle with social interaction so much that I don't like talking to people. I say visit a psychiatrist who can give you a proper diagnosis. A lot more people are walking around with autism than we think.
Ok
 
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