As intermarriage spreads, fault lines are exposed

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I never understood how some of you nikkas will complain about single mother's in one breath and be mad at other dudes trying to cuff single mother's on the other end. Like you understand that being a single mother is a problem but when a man comes along and tries to help the woman you're mad at him and want her to suffer being a single mother forever.

I don't get it either. Not every single father was/is a dead beat, maybe 2 decent poeple made bad decisions. Alot of these posters only think in black and white.
 

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I never understood how some of you nikkas will complain about single mother's in one breath and be mad at other dudes trying to cuff single mother's on the other end. Like you understand that being a single mother is a problem but when a man comes along and tries to help the woman you're mad at him and want her to suffer being a single mother forever.

if brehs are complaining about single mothers wouldnt they be mad at a breh for cuffing her being that single moms are the problem right?. The solution isnt taking on HER family and being a simp.That is enabling bad behavior and women who see that wont feel like they made a mistake by bringing a child in this world out of wedlock. The point is to give a since of reality to women so they dont think that everyone will save them from the mistakes that they created themselves. sorry yall want equality. now take it.
 

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I never understood how some of you nikkas will complain about single mother's in one breath and be mad at other dudes trying to cuff single mother's on the other end. Like you understand that being a single mother is a problem but when a man comes along and tries to help the woman you're mad at him and want her to suffer being a single mother forever.

It's enabling behavior. If women know 100% certain they won't be cuffed if they have kids outta wedlock they'll adjust their behavior accordingly. No incentive for women to carry themselves with more self respect when they know some sucker will just cuff regardless of how trashy they are. :yeshrug:
 

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It's enabling behavior. If women know 100% certain they won't be cuffed if they have kids outta wedlock they'll adjust their behavior accordingly. No incentive for women to carry themselves with more self respect when they know some sucker will just cuff regardless of how trashy they are. :yeshrug:
The problem is that line of thinking is that you're putting the accountability and change in our community on the woman's shoulders. I can assure you that nothing will change until black men as a collective take responsibility and leadership of his community. You're trying to hold women to a higher accountability standard than the men and that's why the cycle repeats.
 

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The problem is that line of thinking is that you're putting the accountability and change in our community on the woman's shoulders. I can assure you that nothing will change until black men as a collective take responsibility and leadership of his community. You're trying to hold women to a higher accountability standard than the men and that's why the cycle repeats.


What a woman allows inside her body is her responsibility tho. Idk why you're making this out to be some huge undertaking, despite how they make themselves look, women arent that stupid and inept that we have to take responsibility for what they allow inside of themselves as well, bro. :yeshrug:
 

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What a woman allows inside her body is her responsibility tho. Idk why you're making this out to be some huge undertaking, despite how they make themselves look, women arent that stupid and inept that we have to take responsibility for what they allow inside of themselves as well, bro. :yeshrug:
True who a woman allows inside of her is her responsibility but both the man and woman is responsible if a child is created.
 

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True who a woman allows inside of her is her responsibility but both the man and woman is responsible if a child is created.

Why do you keep trying to make men responsible for who women allow inside of them? Do you think that low of women's intelligence?

I personally think that women are extremely manipulative and self serving rather than dumb. Hence if men stop wifing these ain't shyt ass single mothers the next generation will correct that behavior when they see nobody's gonna give them an out. As it is right now, we're gonna keep seeing women be single mother's in large numbers when they know some sucker gonna try to bail them out regardless of how they carry themselves.:yeshrug:
 

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if brehs are complaining about single mothers wouldnt they be mad at a breh for cuffing her being that single moms are the problem right?. The solution isnt taking on HER family and being a simp.That is enabling bad behavior and women who see that wont feel like they made a mistake by bringing a child in this world out of wedlock. The point is to give a since of reality to women so they dont think that everyone will save them from the mistakes that they created themselves. sorry yall want equality. now take it.

It's enabling behavior. If women know 100% certain they won't be cuffed if they have kids outta wedlock they'll adjust their behavior accordingly. No incentive for women to carry themselves with more self respect when they know some sucker will just cuff regardless of how trashy they are. :yeshrug:

Y'all got this same energy for single fathers too or are women the only ones who have to be alone and pay for their "bad choices" for the rest of their lives?:comeon:
 

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Why do you keep trying to make men responsible for who women allow inside of them? Do you think that low of women's intelligence?

I personally think that women are extremely manipulative and self serving rather than dumb. Hence if men stop wifing these ain't shyt ass single mothers the next generation will correct that behavior when they see nobody's gonna give them an out. As it is right now, we're gonna keep seeing women be single mother's in large numbers when they know some sucker gonna try to bail them out regardless of how they carry themselves.:yeshrug:
:what: nikka all I'm saying is that it's a child is the responsibility of the mother and father so for you nikkas to point a finger at single mother's on some:ufdup: shyt is weak as fukk. Basically you're saying it's ok for certain dudes to be absent of their children's lives but the woman should know better and just avoid them dudes and if she gets tricked then it's her fault. I ain't saying women ain't smart I'm saying that single mother's are a creation from black men and women so all that finger pointing at the woman is some sucka shyt.
 

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Y'all got this same energy for single fathers too or are women the only ones who have to be alone and pay for their "bad choices" for the rest of their lives?:comeon:

What a man allows inside of his body is his choice too. So when your boyfriend gives you aids it's YOUR FAULT because you let a dirty dikk nikka fukk you :yeshrug:
 

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:what: nikka all I'm saying is that it's a child is the responsibility of the mother and father so for you nikkas to point a finger at single mother's on some:ufdup: shyt is weak as fukk. Basically you're saying it's ok for certain dudes to be absent of their children's lives but the woman should know better and just avoid them dudes and if she gets tricked then it's her fault. I ain't saying women ain't smart I'm saying that single mother's are a creation from black men and women so all that finger pointing at the woman is some sucka shyt.

Right you aren't outwardly aware of the fact that you're trying to put the responsibility of what a woman allows inside of her body on the man, ain't no point in us continuing to talk if you aren't aware of this fact. You called out people on our levels thinking process and it looks like you're just too low vibration to fully understand it at this moment.:yeshrug:
 

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The Parks and Recreation actress, 42, has welcomed her first child with her boyfriend, Vampire Weekend lead vocalist Ezra Koenig, 34, PEOPLE confirms via the birth certificate.
https://people.com/

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A bi-racial woman marries a white guy and now has a 75% white/25% black child. But with DNA, the percentages don't work out like that. Anyway, hope she's happy.

She's 8 years older
 

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:jbhmm: You sure it doesn’t have anything to do with black men lives?

:jbhmm: If these cac men marry Asian women, what happens with cac women?

:jbhmm: Wouldn’t those cac women date out since the uneven balance is forcing them to?

:jbhmm: Didn’t Ok Cupid have a study that had black men as the number two desired male after cac males?

:jbhmm: You sure this doesn’t affect black men?



Hispanic and middle eastern are # 2, we're next to last because of low socioeconomic status. Just because alot of people use you as a dildo means nothinh
 

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What a man allows inside of his body is his choice too. So when your boyfriend gives you aids it's YOUR FAULT because you let a dirty dikk nikka fukk you :yeshrug:

I'm gay because I asked you nikkas to keep the same energy towards men that you have towards women. Only on the Coli:mjlol:
 
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