You have no idea of what you're talking about.
I'm gay and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. It's who I am, it's me, it's apart of me, I didn't choose to be gay. It was always apart of me. I didn't realize that I was gay until I was 12 years, was in denial for 12 years, and didn't choose to accept it until I was 24. Came out when I was 25. It's ugly to those that are ugly within themselves upon knowing what it is or does who don't understand. It's beautiful that do understand or know what it is. I wouldn't change a thing.
I was never abused, molested, or raped as a child. None of that shyt determines how someone turns out. There are plenty of straight men who have been sexually abused as children by other men and it hasn't affected their orientation.
Since I'm the gay guy, let me speak on what it is to be gay and stop speaking for me and other lgbt people with your insecure heterosexual ass. You should be busy enjoying your life and your sexuality instead of envying someone else because you find being heterosexual to be boring and won't give you the attention you desire. When you really know yourself aside from the traits you can't control and choose to identify with such as your gender, your sex, your skin color, your ethnicity, your sexual orientation, you would be a lot more confident with knowing yourself and not feel threatened by something trivial as homosexual orientation.