Yes older men and women are complaining about the lack of options for relationships and marriage. There’s a Reddit millennial community of people who have given up on dating altogether.
But young people are also on the internet complaining about walking dates, coffee dates, situationships, being ghosted, being catfished, being lied to, and not being liked by other black men/women. These are people who are mid 20s to early 30s.
The bottom line is if so many people are single and complaining then everybody in reality has tons of options. Yall keep repeating this lie that “nerdy, educated” Black men don’t have options when they have 3-4x Black women compared to Black men on college campuses. If anybody has options, it’s educated Black men. A “swagless” Black man is damn near an anomaly because most Black men got style, swag, and personality no matter their interests and education level.