Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread

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She's a pretty lady but gawt damn those tattoos!
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She honestly could have been a model, something went terribly wrong
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This episode was very love connection/ change of hearts - ish but it’s much needed for people who are seriously looking for love and not a come up.
Relationships based on love is not a fair game for men in 2024, men have always loved harder than women regardless.
Having leverage and options and then picking what you want is the only way.
 

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Yes older men and women are complaining about the lack of options for relationships and marriage. There’s a Reddit millennial community of people who have given up on dating altogether.

But young people are also on the internet complaining about walking dates, coffee dates, situationships, being ghosted, being catfished, being lied to, and not being liked by other black men/women. These are people who are mid 20s to early 30s.

The bottom line is if so many people are single and complaining then everybody in reality has tons of options. Yall keep repeating this lie that “nerdy, educated” Black men don’t have options when they have 3-4x Black women compared to Black men on college campuses. If anybody has options, it’s educated Black men. A “swagless” Black man is damn near an anomaly because most Black men got style, swag, and personality no matter their interests and education level.


We need to be honest in the black community tho.

Crack and the dope dealer wife mentality ruined the black community and set us into the dark age bushes.

Before crack....

No girl just would diss you for material items.
Yet once crack popped off.
Where the older dealer slash underage circle jerk.

Where dealers were being moved on by younger black women from the dawn of crack for the dope dealer wife movement. Or older dealers were preying on younger females. Or vice versa. Back then it was a circle jerk. That if you were younger you now are living the global neg effects of in life as a black person male or female. This circle jerk dynamic fukked our community.
past the point of no return. Couple it with the horror fuel of the divorce gen in that same exact time. That black people never recovered snd have been too money grubbing to even be compatible in general. Black people level of materialism reached a point of no return.
that was not there before crack.
Before crack it was clearly defined as what as taboo. Children out of wedlock was taboo. Materialism was taboo in love in the black community.
Until crack and the divorce generation hit. We were not socially free long enough.
to have a solid enough braintrust.
as a community to fight these social pathogens purposefully put here.

Before crack and the divorce gen. Black women and black men like one another for who they were generally. After crack, and divorce gen. You was not shyt in the dating world.
if you did not have a pair of jordan 2's, a troop jacket.
or a mini suv like Suzuki to geo tracker.
Our materialism we thwarted from the original johnson publication run for Italian designers. That materialism based run pre crack. Never hurt us globally. After crack...that level of materialism dynamic became the actual dominant wave. When before crack and the divorce gen.

all that neg based dating shyt was taboo. Like completely taboo in the black community.


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