A lil bit of both depending on my mood
Are you the pursuer or do you let em choose?
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Ain't That Something
Superstar
You a woman you can afford to, but you got a bunch of nikkas sitting here starving bc they let the chic choose and still waiting
nikkas on that anime swagg talking bout I let her choose.
Ya better go after the women ya want. Close mouths don't get fed brehs.
That is true....
This cokehead was talking to me and my peeps and he said you got to go out and get yours...and he is right....
I think its a mindset thing...nikkas are more timid to talk to a female than to pop off on a boss...
Its funny how the human mind is..
I think the same approach needs to be applied to women...
Just pop off
i think u have to mix both,let a chick know u want it,but also sometimes make her think u dont,have to keep them interested 
but like LL said .. a man dont choose a woman a woman chooses a man .. i love women
but like LL said .. a man dont choose a woman a woman chooses a man .. i love women
AlreadyKnow
Southern Belle
Well maybe some guys need to have something worth choosing?You a woman you can afford to, but you got a bunch of nikkas sitting here starving bc they let the chic choose and still waiting
Ain't That Something
Superstar
That is subjective, unreliable, and dependent on an outside force while a guy going after the woman he wants solely depends on him, what he looking for and also what he brings to the table.
edit: also all a female is required to have is a vagina and a gang of nikkas will still be trying to smash
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
it used to be slim pickens so i would let them choose
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I know 2 females at work that im confused on if they choosing or being friendly. 
AlreadyKnow
Southern Belle
That is subjective, unreliable, and dependent on an outside force while a guy going after the woman he wants solely depends on him, what he looking for and also what he brings to the table.
edit: also all a female is required to have is a vagina and a gang of nikkas will still be trying to smash
Subjective? Not really. Get deep pockets and all that subjectivity and having to be aggressive with women gets thrown out the window. Women follow status and money like robots. So my original post still stands. Have something to choose from and there wouldn't be a problem.
I just show interest.
- If i get a CLEAR sign of MUTUAL interest then I come in.
- If I see you're the type that likes to profile and pose just so people can pursue you I'll just break off.
Ain't That Something
Superstar
Being chosen bc you rich or doing the choosing while being rich is 2 different things. hence in my post I said what you bring to the table and focus on what you can control. A woman that choses you bc of your bank account is a piranha looking for a victim and as a man one shouldn't subject themselves to be prey. Plus unless females on this site are lying, no matter how rich a nikka is if he ugly and have a shytty personality they won't fukk with him. So which on is it?
AlreadyKnow
Southern Belle
Being chosen bc you rich or doing the choosing while being rich is 2 different things. hence in my post I said what you bring to the table and focus on what you can control. A woman that choses you bc of your bank account is a piranha looking for a victim and as a man one shouldn't subject themselves to be prey. Plus unless females on this site are lying, no matter how rich a nikka is if he ugly and have a shytty personality they won't fukk with him. So which on is it?
Oh ok. Well keep hope alive then.
And as for your last statement. I'm older and in a different part of my life than many of the girls on this site who report they are in their 20s. My opinions will likely clash with 20 somethings still finding their way through life.
read this fourm brehs. hoes out here feelin entitled as shyt
http://www.lipstickalley.com/f41/
I aint chasing shyt. i'll show interest, but if you ain't giving me nothing to work with, I'm done, I ain't got time for 1 girl. Chasing implies not catching, I aint chasin no hoes brehs
http://www.lipstickalley.com/f41/
I aint chasing shyt. i'll show interest, but if you ain't giving me nothing to work with, I'm done, I ain't got time for 1 girl. Chasing implies not catching, I aint chasin no hoes brehs
JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
The woman is ultimately the chooser, the man simply submits his resume
Explained me to a tee. Don't got time for the cat and mouse "does she like me" games
I approach most of the time, and if she's not reciprocating (either by body language, she's comes off as boring, etc.) Then I bounce
I'm going to start doing this
Anyway, I pursue to a certain point. I'll do most of the initiation in the beginning phases, but as things move along I usually put the ball in their court to see what moves they'll make. If they're feeling you they'll always meet you halfway.
Ways better than wasting time standing there like a court jester tryna make some random broad laugh, pat you on the head and throw you a cookie
.Next time the bytch will remember to bring a personality with her when she leaves the house
