Are you the pursuer or do you let em choose?

[hu3ypdadon]

I like assertive men, so yay for those who are go-getters.

We need more opinions like these^^ ..
Do women like the laid back not trying to be thirsty nicca, or the aggressive making dat first move type nicca?

 

[AAKing23]

It''s best to be balanced when it comes to it because every chick is different



I personally prefer to let them choose because it's easier to me personally but to get the girl you want you probably gonna have to pursue

 

[Desirous]

We need more opinions like these^^ ..
Do women like the laid back not trying to be thirsty nicca, or the aggressive making dat first move type nicca?

I'm more traditional, so I appreciate a man who is willing to approach the female he likes/wants. If he shows interest, then I will reciprocate (if I'm feeling him and if I'm not, I'll be honest and we can both just let that go). I definitely don't like for / expect a guy to chase me after I have expressed that I'm not interested in pursuing something with him, but let me know if you like me and let's take it from there. As a female, I will sit back and see if you have the confidence to come to me.

This doesn't represent the opinions of all women, but that's my personal preference.

 

[Elle Driver]

We need more opinions like these^^ ..
Do women like the laid back not trying to be thirsty nicca, or the aggressive making dat first move type nicca?

Eh it depends on if I'm feelin the nikka, I'll probably just approach him first. I don't like waiting around for shyt. I'm a go getta.

 

[raw613]

I generally persue considering I am the one that iniates conversation, but women will often communicate non verbally if they are interested before a word is said.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm probably way too laid back. I can't tell you how much puss I've missed out on just cuz (apart from My Moms and sisters) women aren't really a priority for me. If we hook up, good, if we don't . I don't have a problem attracting women initially, its the fact that I don't really give a fukk about what happens afterwards that screws me sometimes

 

[Desirous]

I generally persue considering I am the one that iniates conversation, but women will often communicate non verbally if they are interested before a word is said.

Exactly

 

[Elle Driver]

I generally persue considering I am the one that iniates conversation, but women will often communicate non verbally if they are interested before a word is said.

Like this?

 

[DrunkenNovice]

Showing non verbal interest is "choosing".

 

[Ohene]

A few years. Ago i use to just let them choose but that wasnt really getting me much action. I had to learn that being to laid back could hurt you when your on the hunt. Imo tho i think you have to do both. Dont get me wrong ill still let a female choose but ill persue if im getting the right type of vibe . Whats yours?

Pretty much, I put my bid in but I don't run it up. I'll make the initial contact and convos...but if its on campus and say after a couple times you dont even see me and say hi or acknowledge me its the bushes. Otherwise she can carry the baton, we can take it further and see where things go.

So overall I pursue at the beginning and then fall back to see where her mind's at

 

[raw613]

Like this?

i wish lol

 

[raw613]

Showing non verbal interest is "choosing".

i can see that, valid point.

 

[Jahmal]

I dont give them any choices http://www.thecoli.com/threads/is-this-considered-rape.148959/

 

[360dagod]

the ones who choose me are either crazy,lonely,or dumb...

So I've made up my mind and said im going to start hunting....

 

[Grams]

First off, no simp but @Desirous looks good as fock my lawd



With girls I let them choose me first meaning I let them show interest in me and then when I get that confirmation I'll go in and pursue. I can't be bothered with trying to go after a girl and she's not showing any interest in me. I don't have the energy for the bs