Are you the pursuer or do you let em choose?

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what if while your being patient she is getting smutted out..and then decides to get at you when shes worn out?

easy.. get yours and leave.. her business is out there thanks to social media anyway.. i mean even if shes not telling u she getting that back blown , her friends talk...

its not 1980 no more
 

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I'm probably way too laid back. I can't tell you how much puss I've missed out on just cuz (apart from My Moms and sisters) women aren't really a priority for me. If we hook up, good, if we don't :manny:. I don't have a problem attracting women initially, its the fact that I don't really give a fukk about what happens afterwards that screws me sometimes :ld:

This is pretty much how I am about it.
 

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I'm too much of a reserved ass nikka. I don't never muster up the courage to spit at a chick in the spur of the moment. I just don't like letting a chick know I'm interset. :yeshrug; I have problems. I am very handsome so it's not like chicks would turn me down, i look better than some bytches.
 

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I'm too much of a reserved ass nikka. I don't never muster up the courage to spit at a chick in the spur of the moment. I just don't like letting a chick know I'm interset. :yeshrug; I have problems. I am very handsome so it's not like chicks would turn me down, i look better than some bytches.

I dont even think its courage...

Do you suffer from depression or anxiety??

Start popping those vitamin B joints.....consistently

eat bananas

magnesium pills

vitamin e

salmon pills

Its helping me a lot...my mood is progressively better now...I still have my moments where I need to relax my brain but its helping...

It relaxes me and kinda blocks the "negative"

I actually feel like im in the mood to be a hunter....

I remember I fukked this 46 year old the same night...I was in front of mcdonalds on 161 in the bx....The game was immaculate that night....

point is sometimes you gotta trust your mouthpiece and rock out...

If she stops and inquires,your halfway there
 

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I'm probably way too laid back. I can't tell you how much puss I've missed out on just cuz (apart from My Moms and sisters) women aren't really a priority for me. If we hook up, good, if we don't :manny:. I don't have a problem attracting women initially, its the fact that I don't really give a fukk about what happens afterwards that screws me sometimes :ld:
Described me perfectly :wow:
 

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let them choose. I'm trying to learn to stop needing and just walk my path. I find that the less you need the more comes your way. It's weird because when you do that, they all try to figure out how to gain control over you. so they offer you more trying to get you to "want". the more they offer, the more they are invested and the more they are at your mercy because you could leave at any point taking everything they have given with you. Don't abuse the knowledge though. be responsible or else you will start falling for your own hype.
 

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Approach and flirt. If I'm not gettin' the vibe that I want, I just walk away mid conversation :pachaha:

Explained me to a tee. Don't got time for the cat and mouse "does she like me :lupe:" games
I approach most of the time, and if she's not reciprocating (either by body language, she's comes off as boring, etc.) Then I bounce
 

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What kinda question is this??

Ur a man.

U are supposed to pursue

Ya we all have our fears of approaching and rejection but da fck u look like waiting for women to approach

Ur supposed to show your big balls by showing you have the courage and confidence to lead that lady

Some of yall nikkaz be whylin talm bout

"IM A PRETTYY bytch bytchES JUST COME TO ME ASKIN TO LICK MY ASS :bryan:"

:childplease:

Get yall sht together and while acknowledging your fears and flaws..pursuing the one u desire

Im talkin to myself as much as yall :whew: :to:
 

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Approach and flirt. If I'm not gettin' the vibe that I want, I just walk away mid conversation :pachaha:

I'm going to start doing this :heh:

Anyway, I pursue to a certain point. I'll do most of the initiation in the beginning phases, but as things move along I usually put the ball in their court to see what moves they'll make. If they're feeling you they'll always meet you halfway.
 
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