"Are you always this quiet?"

[Estarossa]

Introverts just be chilling in the back reading harry potter, but it turns out we want to be catered to?

Lmao they sound unhinged as shít…

I’m great at speaking and making conversation but if I don’t need to or don’t feel like it I won’t. Mf’s at my last job was upset and offended when I stopped coming around to shoot the shyt.

 

[Mugenight]

Imagine a having beef with somebody because they're not talkative some of you extroverts are weird as fukk.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I have that fakkit on Ignore

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Yeah ok.

Why you get so quiet?

 

[Remote]

Why you get so quiet?

Well there's a difference between being anti-social, and knowing when a conversation is over.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Weirdos who try to force you to interact with them beyond the necessary are off putting. I'll gauge if you worth a conversation on my own time otherwise it's strictly gonna be work related communications. Someone saying that is like demanding you warm up to them.

Next time they hit you with that say "depends who I'm around". Let that sink in.

 

[DeuceZ]

The book Quiet by Susan Cain is great on introversion.

Introverts for the win

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Well there's a difference between being anti-social, and knowing when a conversation is over.

I guess I'm more introverted than I thought. Or maybe the older I get the more introverted I'm becoming. When I'm working I'm just really focused and everything that I'm not focused on becomes background noise. So I can see how that might rub some people the wrong way. I try to speak to everyone though

 

[FTBS]

Some people struggle with quiet/solititude. They thrive on interaction or just noise. Not your problem if you dont feel like being bothered but it is indeed a thing. Anybody that cant stand somebody else being quiet or minding their business probably fallls into this category.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I guess I'm more introverted than I thought. Or maybe the older I get the more introverted I'm becoming. When I'm working I'm just really focused and everything that I'm not focused on becomes background noise. So I can see how that might rub some people the wrong way. I try to speak to everyone though

You can be introverted and still social around the right people. Not everyone deserves your energy or for you to open up your personality to them.

 

[FTBS]

I guess I'm more introverted than I thought. Or maybe the older I get the more introverted I'm becoming. When I'm working I'm just really focused and everything that I'm not focused on becomes background noise. So I can see how that might rub some people the wrong way. I try to speak to everyone though

Focusing on work is not necessarily a sign of introversion. Sometimes you need to shut the fukk up and do the job. An extrovert will do that too. Some people just dont know how to shut up. Just like some struggle to interact with others. Either extreme can be problematic.

 

[Peter Popoff]

I don’t have coworkers but I can relate

I can totally relate to this. This is one of the reasons I was let go unexpectedly. I'm more of an ambivert.

Not only as a black person but also very few men. I wasn't messy, I was quiet but my boss just thought I wasn't outgoing enough.

I learned going forward, if the culture mad awkward, look for another job immediately.

 

[Billie Jean]

u gotta start lying to these nikkas. this week i told them im fluent in german and im getting married

and our relationship is jumpin

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Some people struggle with quiet/solititude. They thrive on interaction or just noise. Not your problem if you dont feel like being bothered but it is indeed a thing. Anybody that cant stand somebody else being quiet or minding their business probably fallls into this category.

It's ignorance if that person doesn't understand that different people have different personalities.

 

[FTBS]

It's ignorance if that person doesn't understand that different people have different personalities.

Unfortunately our society favors the outgoing. So thats what makes people like this feel entitled to interaction. They never have to consider that some people may not feel like being bothered or are just quiet by nature.