Given my lack of long term relationship history, I don't exactly have a strong experiencial ground to stand on here….but, were I in a relationship, (which I would not be in if I didn't care for the person) I would always consider that persons feelings, because I would want the same consideration, and I don't need that stress. I have to be honest in my personal relationships, I can't live a lie at home and a nightmare in the street, I need peace. Be with the person you want….or don't. I was telling one of my serially unfaithful friends who is in relationship, I GET cheating I understand it….but, while in a relationship some other women would just be strictly on a 'fantasy' basis. You can have the instinct, but not the reality. If i legit fell for someone else, I would have to make the decision one way other, but theres very limited reasons I would be unable to tell the one I was with, what was up, before I cheated, physically or emotionally.
Why leave a long term relationship when you can smash a few times andSomebody give this man a trophy! This is exactly how it should be. I'm not saying that men (or women) dont cheat (or have the urge). Even the best men run into situations where they are at least thinking about what the other puss is like. It is simply about control. Being able to control your urges is important if you care about your partner. If you feel like you want to cheat, you have to get out of the relationship first. Not saying that it wont hurt other parties involved, but you have to be real with yourself. If you want to cheat, gotta do it right.
Why leave a long term relationship when you can smash a few times and
It's about being genuine. If you would feel comfortable with your woman doing the same, then that kind of relationship would work for your household. If not, .
Relationships can be different for different couples. It's just that most people wouldnt want their sig other to sleep around.
Nah breh she can cheat all she wants as long as I don't don't find out
Why leave a long term relationship when you can smash a few times and
What if she felt exactly the way you feel? Oh what a tangled web we weave! lol
I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, problem solver, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.
Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.