Are there really men who don't cheat

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Given my lack of long term relationship history, I don't exactly have a strong experiencial ground to stand on here….but, were I in a relationship, (which I would not be in if I didn't care for the person) I would always consider that persons feelings, because I would want the same consideration, and I don't need that stress. I have to be honest in my personal relationships, I can't live a lie at home and a nightmare in the street, I need peace. Be with the person you want….or don't. I was telling one of my serially unfaithful friends who is in relationship, I GET cheating I understand it….but, while in a relationship some other women would just be strictly on a 'fantasy' basis. You can have the instinct, but not the reality. If i legit fell for someone else, I would have to make the decision one way other, but theres very limited reasons I would be unable to tell the one I was with, what was up, before I cheated, physically or emotionally.

Somebody give this man a trophy!:sas1::obama: This is exactly how it should be. I'm not saying that men (or women) dont cheat (or have the urge). Even the best men run into situations where they are at least thinking about what the other puss is like. It is simply about control. Being able to control your urges is important if you care about your partner. If you feel like you want to cheat, you have to get out of the relationship first. Not saying that it wont hurt other parties involved, but you have to be real with yourself. If you want to cheat, gotta do it right. :yeshrug:
 

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I never cheated but my ex left me anyways for her bum ass nikka ex on some never getting over him shyt and he wormed his way back into her heart... :mjcry: I'm staying single for the foreseeable future... fukk these women, man.
 

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Somebody give this man a trophy!:sas1::obama: This is exactly how it should be. I'm not saying that men (or women) dont cheat (or have the urge). Even the best men run into situations where they are at least thinking about what the other puss is like. It is simply about control. Being able to control your urges is important if you care about your partner. If you feel like you want to cheat, you have to get out of the relationship first. Not saying that it wont hurt other parties involved, but you have to be real with yourself. If you want to cheat, gotta do it right. :yeshrug:
Why leave a long term relationship when you can smash a few times and :win:
 

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Why leave a long term relationship when you can smash a few times and :win:
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It's about being genuine. If you would feel comfortable with your woman doing the same, then that kind of relationship would work for your household:myman:. If not, :ufdup:.


Relationships can be different for different couples. It's just that most people wouldnt want their sig other to sleep around.
 

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It's about being genuine. If you would feel comfortable with your woman doing the same, then that kind of relationship would work for your household:myman:. If not, :ufdup:.


Relationships can be different for different couples. It's just that most people wouldnt want their sig other to sleep around.

Nah breh she can cheat all she wants as long as I don't don't find out :yeshrug:
 

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these dudes holdin back the urges...but 95% of the time they fail.
next thing you know they on some
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with Tammy from work
 

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Cheating made my mom file for divorce :yeshrug:

I saw how that affected our family and made me never want to put another family or person I'm involved through that. I've had opportunities, and like a poster said the same characteristics that make men irresistible to one women will make him irresistible to others so the opportunity will present themselves to a thorough dude.

But scust at nikkas, stating there might be something wrong with someone that cheats. I take pride in not cheating because I've seen the consequences. The will power alone makes me even that more thorough. I've slipped up, I'll admit and it made me never want to do it again. That's just me though :manny:
 

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I wonder how many of you 'it's natural to cheat' dudes will be so understanding when your woman hits you with the same philosophy. Will you raise another man's child she had while she cheated on you because it was in her natural urges to get that superior DNA, but she doesn't want to leave you because you are an excellent provider of resources?
 

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I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, problem solver, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner:shaq:. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.

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Nah you just a weak ass nikka. Stop making excuses because you can't control an erection.

Ol "Life is so easy for her, I deserve this" ass nikka

Ol "It's our nature, monogamy isn't natural" ass nikka.

Don't compare humans to a fukkin dog breh.
Y'all kill me with that shyt. Weak nikkas with weaker resolve.
 
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