Are there really men who don't cheat

larsattack

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I've never cheated because I don't enter relationships if I know I'm not ready. You can make all the excuses you want as to why you cheat but no one is telling you to settle down if you don't want to. Would you date someone you couldn't trust? You wouldn't because it's pointless.
Me and my girlfriend was messing around for 2 years before we dated because I didn't want a girlfriend (I had just got out of a 2 year relationship). We've been dating for 3 years now
 
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ive never cheated in my life

my reasoning is based on seeing others do it, from childhood to a young adult, and just realizing it is dumb and destructive

as a man you obviously get tempted on a biological/carnal level but the beautiful thing about a brain is that you can figure out what is right for you and what makes sense
 

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I've never cheated because I don't enter relationships if I know I'm not ready. You can make all the excuses you want as to why you cheat but no one is telling you to settle down if you don't want to. Would you date someone you couldn't trust? You wouldn't because it's pointless.
Me and my girlfriend was messing around for 2 years before we dated because I didn't want a girlfriend (I had just got out of a 2 year relationship). We've been dating for 3 years now

This has nothin to do with why people cheat long down the line in a relationship.
 
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This has nothin to do with why people chest long down the line in a relationship.
If you make it to that point than it's possible what ever reason you had to cheat could resolved. But that all depends on how your partner gives a damn. The point was if you aren't ready than don't fool yourself. All the cheaters I know did it long before there relationship could be taken serious.
 

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The excuses though.

If you want to cheat go right ahead but that's your choice. Are you an adult, a man, or are you a little boy who makes a fuss because he saw a toy in the supermarket?

Do whatever you choose but take responsibility :ufdup:
 

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I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, problem solver, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner:shaq:. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.
 
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I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis to satisfy your inner:shaq:. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.
Real speak and couldn't have said it better.
 

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Please elaborate. :feedme:. I could use the knowledge
When you masturbating and have a woman in the crib you are killing your libido, energy and passion necessary to properly initiate sex with your woman. It's half assed and lazy. You will feel the energy more when you let that nut back up for 48 hours
 

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I know 2 guys who I sincerely doubt have ever cheated, 1 of whom had been cheated one. Can never say for sure though.

I haven't cheated in past relationships with women I wasn't happy with, doubt I'll cheat in the future when I'm with a woman I am happy with.
 

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I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis to satisfy your inner:shaq:. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.

:wow:
 

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I ain't never cheated on a girl :blackye:

More for health reasons than for moral reasons. You can fukk around and get someone's who trusting you with their bodies sick. I'll break up with a girl before I cheat, because at the end of the day I don't want anyone bringing me back some shyt :scust:

No second chances for someone who cheats on me either. Total lack of respect for my health. I can get a new bytch, I can't get a new body :blackcamby:
 
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