You nikkas don't live the real world. Man, I have been in loving relationships. Talking about making life changing decisions type of love. Living with a woman type love. There was one woman who knew my every fault and insecurities and stilll stuck around. But I just had to have those side ones. I had to, I needed that new p*ssy. Was I the best man I could be outside of that, yes sir. No man can resist, nor can any woman resist. We like to talk down on how men are weak for puss, when I have seen and been apart unfaithful situations with women. Bustin on tattoos and wedding rings. Women can be just as weak as men.
Are there really men who don't cheat
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Carolina Slim
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Working in a department that is like 85-90% female, I have had several opportunities where, if I had pursued them, would have ended up with me getting into something. Chicks messaging me over the office IM system, talking a little reckless. One, comes to the gym with me on a regular basis, last time she was wearing some type of sleeveless t shirt where the sides are all out with what looked like a bikini top underneath. Playing racquetball, one of her titties popped out (I was behind her, I didn't see it) but when she saw that I wasn't looking like 
, I think it hurt her a little.
My man put me on to something a long time ago. He had been having problems with his broad, and she went away with her moms to FL. So he got with this lil chick in his office who had been flirting with him, brought her to the crib
and knocked it down. He told me once he milked out, he went from to 
, realizing he ain't even like the broad like that. She had been thinking she was gonna spend the whole weekend with son, but he was like 
I'll drive you back uptown, but you can't stay here.
So now for me, just KNOWING that I can bag these broads if I put some effort in, is enough for me. No sense risking everything that me and wifey have built up.
, I think it hurt her a little.My man put me on to something a long time ago. He had been having problems with his broad, and she went away with her moms to FL. So he got with this lil chick in his office who had been flirting with him, brought her to the crib
and knocked it down. He told me once he milked out, he went from to , realizing he ain't even like the broad like that. She had been thinking she was gonna spend the whole weekend with son, but he was like I'll drive you back uptown, but you can't stay here. So now for me, just KNOWING that I can bag these broads if I put some effort in, is enough for me. No sense risking everything that me and wifey have built up.
Given my lack of long term relationship history, I don't exactly have a strong experiencial ground to stand on here….but, were I in a relationship, (which I would not be in if I didn't care for the person) I would always consider that persons feelings, because I would want the same consideration, and I don't need that stress. I have to be honest in my personal relationships, I can't live a lie at home and a nightmare in the street, I need peace. Be with the person you want….or don't. I was telling one of my serially unfaithful friends who is in relationship, I GET cheating I understand it….but, while in a relationship some other women would just be strictly on a 'fantasy' basis. You can have the instinct, but not the reality. If i legit fell for someone else, I would have to make the decision one way other, but theres very limited reasons I would be unable to tell the one I was with, what was up, before I cheated, physically or emotionally.
Man I learn something new everyday on this sitenikkas in this thread really acting like something's wrong with you if you don't cheat?
Technically it's impossible for a man to cheat so the answer is obviously yes
philmonroe
Superstar
Its also instinctive for most people to want to smack somebody up talking shyt but everybody isn't just doing that all willy nilly so we have control over what we do. If you don't want to have control over it cool but that's not why you cheat.
Elle Driver
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So its in yall nature to be scum bags is what you're saying?
FinesseKing
Banned
I don't but I have to admit it's fukking hard.
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be faithful, brehettes
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OneManGang
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I'm copying this shyt down and saving it. I love my girl, like her family, all of that. Most likely will marry this chick barring some crazy shyt. BUT temptation is all around me and I can't help but feel like there's still p*ssy out there to be explored. I feel like a scumbag sometimes that I think about new p*ssy. I need Jesus. Constant companionship is important with someone you care a lot about...so it's not always about just be single. I'd be selfish to tell her I want to go explore, but it's crazy that I care more about how she'd feel than I do about holding in my desires.I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner
Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.
