Approaching women at the gym

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The best way is if a woman is CHOOSING you. Eye contact, body languange etc. Otherwise its a numbers game. nikkas approaching 20 girls get 4 numbers, 2 flake, 1 using you for attention, and the one wanting to give you the skins is :flabbynsick:


Play it the easy way my nikkas, choosing :win:
 

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try walking up 10 dime chicks with your "confidence", and report back to us all on how far that got u.

u n1ggas talk about "confidence" like that sh1t works for every time for every one. there are some chicks dude coulda walked up to and woulda gotten embarrassed something serious. and there are others like the one he talked about who would be more receptive.

confidence helps if you have something to be confident about.

my nikka Truest always droppin knowlege :wow:
 

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Yep...


A lot of the time it's the same night, no dates or anything...


As far as pulling chicks at the gym, I've said it million times, before, chicks be choosing. I rarely see cats successfully ignite sh*t at the gym.



Point blank, if chick is feeling you, she'll move into the general area, that you're working out in. Then you holla; look for subtle clues.


I also make my presence known, by routinely going to the water fountain. If they're interested, then we'll cross paths. Otherwise stick to parking lot pimping....
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Just started going to the gym, this female was kinda grilling today, should I approach? :lupe:
No offense but you sure you wasn't grilling her first? A lot of dudes say a chick grilling but they are looking at the chick just as much and the chick just wondering what you going to do. I know it seems stupid but some chicks have said such. Also she probably know you ain't bout that life if she was grilling and you didn't approach. Beat thing is regardless next time get it over with
 

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No offense but you sure you wasn't grilling her first? A lot of dudes say a chick grilling but they are looking at the chick just as much and the chick just wondering what you going to do. I know it seems stupid but some chicks have said such. Also she probably know you ain't bout that life if she was grilling and you didn't approach. Beat thing is regardless next time get it over with
Lol, no offense taken breh. I'd say it was equal, every time I looked at her she'd be looking at me & we'd lock eyes for a lil & she would look away. I gave her the ill stare while I was pumping that weight and rapping :shaq: , she smiled and looked away. I was gonna approach her at the end of my set, but when I was done I had my back to her while I drank my water, turned around & she was gone :noah: I looked around real quick, didn't see her so I went and played basketball. While I'm playing everybody is like "daaaaaamn, check shorty out" . I look and its her, we lock eyes again as she's walking out, I look away and throw up a three and make it :whew:

Ima def. approach her next time. Nice lil slim joint with caramel skin and wild hair :noah:
 

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Lol, no offense taken breh. I'd say it was equal, every time I looked at her she'd be looking at me & we'd lock eyes for a lil & she would look away. I gave her the ill stare while I was pumping that weight and rapping :shaq: , she smiled and looked away. I was gonna approach her at the end of my set, but when I was done I had my back to her while I drank my water, turned around & she was gone :noah: I looked around real quick, didn't see her so I went and played basketball. While I'm playing everybody is like "daaaaaamn, check shorty out" . I look and its her, we lock eyes again as she's walking out, I look away and throw up a three and make it :whew:

Ima def. approach her next time. Nice lil slim joint with caramel skin and wild hair :noah:
Do it you'll feel better one way or another trust me
 

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i only approach when she lookin like this at me
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nah but for real i bytched out back when i went to the local gym, before i got my home gym set up. i remember there was this one white girl in particular who always ended up on a machine next to me...i bet i coulda spit some weak game and get her number but i was 16 and shy at the time :manny:

other then that my city is filled with :flabbynsick: middle aged ladies and old dudes hanging on to their youth :scusthov:
 

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I hate guys who try this. Some women only go to the gym to get attention though, so I'm sure you'll be able to tell the difference between someone who is there to actually work out and someone there just trying to pose in front of the equipment.
 

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If a chick is into you, she'll make it pretty obvious

Constant eye contact in between sets, body facing towards you, working out in your vicinity. A lot of dudes mistake a girl working out next to them as a sign of interest :whoa:, but that alone isn't enough.If you're noticing all three of those signs then you got the green light.

Some chicks are really bold and will even start up the convo. I went to the gym last year to hoop, and as I was leaving this girl chases me down and hands me her #. And I'm not super ripped or great looking, my J was just on point that day :heh:

Saw another girl approach a dude who was squatting 3 plates, and said she was impressed. I was doing calf raises right next to them and dude barely had to say anything before she was offering up her digits.
 

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i've never done it. even when I felt I could succeed. this past thursday I was really tempted...some cute ass chic kept eye fukkin me. everytime i looked at her she was starin, and she wasn't tryin to hide it. then finally we locked eyes and I was like fukk it I'm not lookin away. and we stared at each other for a few seconds then she gave me a sexy ass smile. it was her first day at the gym too. after that I just went about my business....but as I was leaving her and her mom were sitting by the entrance and her mom signaled to her daughter to let her know I was walking by and they both smiled. for years i've kept to myself at the gym and I wasn't tryin to change it up now. if she wants the D she can make it happen. I got gains to worry about:takedat:
 
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