Approaching women at the gym

[Majestic Pape]

On the real; that's my goal

To be able to spit for a minute at the grocery line cashier

Some of the easiest women in the world to pull, breh, trust me. I worked at a grocery store for about three years and any time a semi respectable looking dude hit on a (single) girl there he was either getting the number or she'd say "No" and complain the rest of the day about how she SHOULD have given up the number.

Most of those girls are mad young though, like 16-19 range.

 

[Majestic Pape]

does anyone go to the gym alone? i dont wanna go up in there and be the only person there who dont know anybody lol. and as for talking to chicks at the gym, if its a spot i plan on frequenting, i'd rather not make a fool outta myself. lol

I've always been under the assumption that MOST dudes go to the gym alone. fukk I look like needing a teammate so I can work out?

 

[Easy-E]

Some of the easiest women in the world to pull, breh, trust me. I worked at a grocery store for about three years and any time a semi respectable looking dude hit on a (single) girl there he was either getting the number or she'd say "No" and complain the rest of the day about how she SHOULD have given up the number.

Most of those girls are mad young though, like 16-19 range.

I'm only 25

 

[Majestic Pape]

I'm only 25

Hey, I was 22-25 at the time myself.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Man I saw a dude bag a chick on the train today

Just like I said, homegirl was open from the jump, she was geeking like he pulled out a $10K wad of cash

He had her number like 2 minutes before the next stop... she was cute too

No headphones

Thats how you do it

 

[The Message]

I holla at chicks at the from time to time. Epecially new bytches that I haven't seen before. Not always on some tryin to get a bytches number all the time, but just stay sharp on my mouthpiece . Its really not that hard. Nyggaz just gota be fearless. I think the bolder u are, the better females respond. But u gotta go in with the utmost confidence and at the same time not come off creepy.

No joke, last week at the gym, This bad azz bytch was doin some circuit workout on her own in the middle of the gym where all the guys use dumbells & free weights. She looked armenian or latino or something, rockin some spandex shorts, sportsbra lookin right.


Nyggaz was in there jockin the shyt outta this bytch starin and shyt (understandablly)
In my head I was thinkn how can I spit at this chick? I waited for a while and just went up to her while she was in between sets, bold as fucc, I pulled 1 of my earphones out and extended my fist to give her a pound. She takes her headphones out and I said "I see u over here workin hard doin circuits, I like the way u train". She gives me a pound and says, thank u" She said she's trainin hard to get ready to go to vegas this summer. We chopped it up for less than 2 mins. I told her I'll let her get back to her workout, we exchanged names, I told her it was nice to meet her and I KIM.

I can't front, nyggaz was lookin at me like I was a gawd while I was talkin to this broad. Because all these nyggaz kept starin and were 2 scared to spit.

I've seen her once since then and we chopped it for a second and it was all good. Bottom line is fellas, who gives a fucc about bein rejected or lookin dumb in front of strangers. Put your bid in and be bold

So thorough...

no homo but i think i've seen ur youtube video of u lifting a 500lb i think. most n1ggas dont look like you

It doesn't matter if he lifted 50lbs, he had enough confidence in himself and boldness to go up and spit. It's cats in the gym who squat and press the world, but put them around a broad and they start acting all scary.

 

[TRUEST]

So thorough...



It doesn't matter if he lifted 50lbs, he had enough confidence in himself and boldness to go up and spit. It's cats in the gym who squat and press the world, but put them around a broad and they start acting all scary.

try walking up 10 dime chicks with your "confidence", and report back to us all on how far that got u.

u n1ggas talk about "confidence" like that sh1t works for every time for every one. there are some chicks dude coulda walked up to and woulda gotten embarrassed something serious. and there are others like the one he talked about who would be more receptive.

confidence helps if you have something to be confident about.

 

[Serious]

I holla at chicks at the from time to time. Epecially new bytches that I haven't seen before. Not always on some tryin to get a bytches number all the time, but just stay sharp on my mouthpiece . Its really not that hard. Nyggaz just gota be fearless. I think the bolder u are, the better females respond. But u gotta go in with the utmost confidence and at the same time not come off creepy.

This sounds about right. It normally takes me a blunt to get like this...

But in bars / club settings, I pull this sh*t off all the time...

 

[Kilgore Trout]

nvm

 

[Majestic Pape]

try walking up 10 dime chicks with your "confidence", and report back to us all on how far that got u.

u n1ggas talk about "confidence" like that sh1t works for every time for every one. there are some chicks dude coulda walked up to and woulda gotten embarrassed something serious. and there are others like the one he talked about who would be more receptive.

confidence helps if you have something to be confident about.

This might be the realest line ever spit.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

try walking up 10 dime chicks with your "confidence", and report back to us all on how far that got u.

u n1ggas talk about "confidence" like that sh1t works for every time for every one. there are some chicks dude coulda walked up to and woulda gotten embarrassed something serious. and there are others like the one he talked about who would be more receptive.

confidence helps if you have something to be confident about.

This is a good post, last line is real talk

But rejection is part of the game for everyone. Very very very few dudes can have any woman they want with no effort... and if they can then it gets into the whole 'is she just looking to get in my pockets' kind of thing. That is why celebrities fukk with other celebrities. So regular dudes need to stop looking at dating through that lens. Rejection sucks but its a part of the game dudes need to accept. Plus just like not every chick will be feeling you, not every chick will reject you. But if you don't put yourself out there you wont get shyt. People have too much fear of rejection/embarrassment. If a chick isnt feeling you its not the end of the world.

 

[The Message]

try walking up 10 dime chicks with your "confidence", and report back to us all on how far that got u.

u n1ggas talk about "confidence" like that sh1t works for every time for every one. there are some chicks dude coulda walked up to and woulda gotten embarrassed something serious. and there are others like the one he talked about who would be more receptive.

confidence helps if you have something to be confident about.

I actually have walked up to group of cuties, on many occasions, engaged all of them in conversation, separated the one that was choosing hard and spit at her. Sometimes I was successful, other times I wasn't. It's ridiculous to think confidence means you're gonna be batting 1000 stepping to broads. It just means you're gonna be if you get the # or not with a female because you you're a slick dude and don't need a female to define or validate you. You and your accomplishments define and validate you.

This aint no mystical type of thing. It's just learned behavior. Not about looks, money, fly cars or clothes. Confidence is grounded in the fact that there is no one on this earth that is like you. You are unique. There's shyt within you (and you only) which makes you fly. Whether it's a sense of humor, making beats, writing stories, photography, or dancing. Dudes do these things and become great at them and the confidence that comes from taking a great picture or deadlifting 405 spills over into their everyday - because you start to think, "I reached that goal, I can create the next one and reach that too." There's now value enriched within you.

That way of thinking it infectious fam - and please believe - the females FEEL it. They gravitate towards nikkas who have that shyt in them. Where cats lose is when they put these broads on a pedestal above them. The first question that dudes have to ask themselves is....

Why the fukk should be I scared of these broads?

 

[Carolina Slim]

I actually have walked up to group of cuties, on many occasions, engaged all of them in conversation, separated the one that was choosing hard and spit at her. Sometimes I was successful, other times I wasn't. It's ridiculous to think confidence means you're gonna be batting 1000 stepping to broads. It just means you're gonna be if you get the # or not with a female because you you're a slick dude and don't need a female to define or validate you. You and your accomplishments define and validate you.

This aint no mystical type of thing. It's just learned behavior. Not about looks, money, fly cars or clothes. Confidence is grounded in the fact that there is no one on this earth that is like you. You are unique. There's shyt within you (and you only) which makes you fly. Whether it's a sense of humor, making beats, writing stories, photography, or dancing. Dudes do these things and become great at them and the confidence that comes from taking a great picture or deadlifting 405 spills over into their everyday - because you start to think, "I reached that goal, I can create the next one and reach that too." There's now value enriched within you.

That way of thinking it infectious fam - and please believe - the females FEEL it. They gravitate towards nikkas who have that shyt in them. Where cats lose is when they put these broads on a pedestal above them. The first question that dudes have to ask themselves is....

Why the fukk should be I scared of these broads?

I learned early on that the best way to get at these females was to act like you DON'T need them. I was thirsty young nikka; spitting game and getting hurt when I didn't win. I switched up; I'd approach a group of broads, spit my piece, and if she wasn't down, I'd be like and keep it pushing. It was like I was saying "aight, your loss". Several would wind up choosing off the strength of that.

 

[The Message]

I learned early on that the best way to get at these females was to act like you DON'T need them. I was thirsty young nikka; spitting game and getting hurt when I didn't win. I switched up; I'd approach a group of broads, spit my piece, and if she wasn't down, I'd be like and keep it pushing. It was like I was saying "aight, your loss". Several would wind up choosing off the strength of that.

Word. I was the same way. Rejection didn't bother me after awhile. These broads breathe the same air I breathe. Eat, shyt and sleep just like me. If she's not feeling me, it's cool, I'd just move on to the ones who ARE. Her loss, like you said. I always felt a chick must be brainless if she don't want to fukk with me.

 

[CrimsonTider]

does anyone go to the gym alone? i dont wanna go up in there and be the only person there who dont know anybody lol. and as for talking to chicks at the gym, if its a spot i plan on frequenting, i'd rather not make a fool outta myself. lol