Approaching women at the gym

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Yep...

A lot of the time it's the same night, no dates or anything...

As far as pulling chicks at the gym, I've said it million times, before, chicks be choosing. I rarely see cats successfully ignite sh*t at the gym.


Point blank, if chick is feeling you, she'll move into the general area, that you're working out in. Then you holla; look for subtle clues.

I also make my presence known, by routinely going to the water fountain. If they're interested, then we'll cross paths. Otherwise stick to parking lot pimping....
I agree chicks be choosing at every acceptable and even some unacceptable places so why would the gym be different? Anybody that thinks otherwise is stupid. As usual both genders are just nervous about that first interaction that's all IMO.
 

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is there ANY way to do this without being a total creepster. :huhldup:


Its always been a 'don't even try it' spot for me, like approaching women when they or I are working....

On the real; that's my goal

To be able to spit for a minute at the grocery line cashier :ohmy:
 

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shyt was just too easy, if you even just have decent game as a trainer i imagine shyt like that goes down every damn day and private sessions in the gym turnout to be private sessions somewhere else.

One of my co- workers used to train part time at the gym I go to. He was training a Redskins cheerleader and said she pretty much all but said she wanted to fukk. He also said a lot of chicks try to give up p*ssy instead paying for sessions:heh:
 

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I holla at chicks at the from time to time. Epecially new bytches that I haven't seen before. Not always on some tryin to get a bytches number all the time, but just stay sharp on my mouthpiece . Its really not that hard. Nyggaz just gota be fearless. I think the bolder u are, the better females respond. But u gotta go in with the utmost confidence and at the same time not come off creepy.

No joke, last week at the gym, This bad azz bytch was doin some circuit workout on her own in the middle of the gym where all the guys use dumbells & free weights. She looked armenian or latino or something, rockin some spandex shorts, sportsbra lookin right. :whew:


Nyggaz was in there jockin the shyt outta this bytch starin and shyt (understandablly)
In my head I was thinkn how can I spit at this chick? I waited for a while and just went up to her while she was in between sets, bold as fucc, I pulled 1 of my earphones out and extended my fist to give her a pound. She takes her headphones out and I said "I see u over here workin hard doin circuits, I like the way u train". She gives me a pound and says, thank u" She said she's trainin hard to get ready to go to vegas this summer. We chopped it up for less than 2 mins. I told her I'll let her get back to her workout, we exchanged names, I told her it was nice to meet her and I KIM. :manny:

I can't front, nyggaz was lookin at me like I was a gawd while I was talkin to this broad. Because all these nyggaz kept starin and were 2 scared to spit.

I've seen her once since then and we chopped it for a second and it was all good. Bottom line is fellas, who gives a fucc about bein rejected or lookin dumb in front of strangers. Put your bid in and be bold
 

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Ehhh, don't do it.

Women aren't really there to get picked up. Plus, if you make a bad impression or come off thirsty it will be awkward the next time you're both there :huhldup:

:what: So this is how you nigs live life?

What type of mindset is this? Not approaching because you might feel awkward later on? What are you twelve? We're all human, our lifespans are finite. You simply cannot afford to be shook like that.
 

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No shame. Sorry to break it some of yall but most of the nikkas that get play are the personal trainers. When regular guys approach me at the gym its at awkward moments and creepy. I use to mess around with a personal trainer just off the strength of his conversation and the fact he use to eat me out on occasions. Now I come to the gym and actually workout and mean mug nikkas so they wont approach me lol.
 

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I holla at chicks at the from time to time. Epecially new bytches that I haven't seen before. Not always on some tryin to get a bytches number all the time, but just stay sharp on my mouthpiece . Its really not that hard. Nyggaz just gota be fearless. I think the bolder u are, the better females respond. But u gotta go in with the utmost confidence and at the same time not come off creepy.

No joke, last week at the gym, This bad azz bytch was doin some circuit workout on her own in the middle of the gym where all the guys use dumbells & free weights. She looked armenian or latino or something, rockin some spandex shorts, sportsbra lookin right. :whew:


Nyggaz was in there jockin the shyt outta this bytch starin and shyt (understandablly)
In my head I was thinkn how can I spit at this chick? I waited for a while and just went up to her while she was in between sets, bold as fucc, I pulled 1 of my earphones out and extended my fist to give her a pound. She takes her headphones out and I said "I see u over here workin hard doin circuits, I like the way u train". She gives me a pound and says, thank u" She said she's trainin hard to get ready to go to vegas this summer. We chopped it up for less than 2 mins. I told her I'll let her get back to her workout, we exchanged names, I told her it was nice to meet her and I KIM. :manny:

I can't front, nyggaz was lookin at me like I was a gawd while I was talkin to this broad. Because all these nyggaz kept starin and were 2 scared to spit.

I've seen her once since then and we chopped it for a second and it was all good. Bottom line is fellas, who gives a fucc about bein rejected or lookin dumb in front of strangers. Put your bid in and be bold


no homo but i think i've seen ur youtube video of u lifting a 500lb i think. most n1ggas dont look like you :sadcam:
 

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No shame. Sorry to break it some of yall but most of the nikkas that get play are the personal trainers. When regular guys approach me at the gym its at awkward moments and creepy. I use to mess around with a personal trainer just off the strength of his conversation and the fact he use to eat me out on occasions. Now I come to the gym and actually workout and mean mug nikkas so they wont approach me lol.

:wtf: What kinda simp azz nygga does that?

:heh:
 

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does anyone go to the gym alone? i dont wanna go up in there and be the only person there who dont know anybody lol. and as for talking to chicks at the gym, if its a spot i plan on frequenting, i'd rather not make a fool outta myself. lol
 

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I dont know if I posted in here already but I think its a bad idea. Same with approaching a chick at her job. At the gym Im at most chicks are just there to work out and get the fukk out. Cutting in to holla is just kind of roud and catches them off guard. Plus a lot of em wear headphones. U gotta have a hell of a mouthpiece to warrant her taking off her headphones and stopping her workout. That whole 'joining chick classes' thing is pretty fakkity too. Its really not the time or place for it. Only way I would say to go for it is if a chick is clearly eyeing you down + throwing signals like that, or if you have to share a machine. Other than that :comeon:
 

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does anyone go to the gym alone? i dont wanna go up in there and be the only person there who dont know anybody lol. and as for talking to chicks at the gym, if its a spot i plan on frequenting, i'd rather not make a fool outta myself. lol

I've literally never lifted with anyone else.

Well I guess I did in HS........but not since.
 
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