Apparently, this tweet got so many women triggered

[Elle Driver]

If you are happy with your life decisions then do it really matter?

 

[8WON6]

it's a dumb tweet because "sleeping around" doesn't mean you were getting pregnant/getting girls pregnant, spreading stds, cheating, etc...the problem is that woman was just moving reckless. There are lots of people that slept around in their 20s and knew how to do it without putting their business in the street or causing drama. People like her just can't believe folks were smarter about it.

 

[Nemesis]

The problem with women is a blatant dishonesty

A guy will cheat for example and admit its fukked up , whatever reason he gives i.e bytch was fine he was drunk , all the time he was fukking her he was thinking about wifey etc .... but he will still admit he was wrong and fukked up

Your typical woman will never admit she was fukked up , she will always try and rationalise her behaviour “ i wasnt getting enough attention “ etc ... and what makes it worse they will never admit what they done is foul

Even when i was doing foul shyt , even well fully knowing i wasnt going t stop i never gave excuses , “ yeah im fukked “

And thats the attitude of most men to be honest , but these scumbag women are a joke

Believe me or not i dont really have a problem with a woman that acts foul , I have a problem with the woman that wont admit it

 

[Woodwerkz]

I agree,

However, most men wont be cool with that history and that's something to consider if a woman wants to start a family. Men will see women two ways:

A. someone to sleep with a few times
B. Someone to commit to

I have respect for women that can commit to the ho lifestyle and realize that they will never get a white wedding dress and kids and a loving husband and they've made their peace with that. We however have a lot of half way hoes. They want to be woman A and woman B. It wont work unless they're okay with settling down with a simp and hiding their past. These are the consequences to sleeping around. Whether you like it or not, men AND women have a hard time committing to someone who has slept around.

I know a few halfway hoes but it's one on social media I just at when I see her post about certain things when she was a ring leader of a hoe crew. She was out there out there. She used to text "SSS" whens he wanted you to come thru. [Smoke, Smash, Slideout ] I remember bumping into her 3 times the same day all with different dudes and her giving me the look then hitting me up that night to chill to tell me about it. Up until that point I didn't know she was getting down like that but she had a "moment" that night when she smoked and drank and told me basically her backstory. I told her " you know you gonna have to move out of state when you ready to end your hoeVentures". Ironically she did just that...moved to Va Beach before going to OKC settling down with a cat that's a Dentist. I can't even be mad at her but I doubt her husband knows she got more bodies on her than he got patients.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

This is me playing devil's advocate for a moment, but how does anyone who sleeps around truly protect themselves?

If you have relegated sex purely down to the act of genitals meeting and skeeting, then I'm assuming you are speaking of working to prevent unwanted STDs and pregnancies, correct?

Perhaps this is the problem though - relegating an act this intimate down to just a pursuit for release. Condoms, pills, sponges, diaphragm, IUDs, shots and everything else can't protect a man or lady from the potential troublesome aftermath of sleeping with a crazy person...which is why I find the "crazy p*ssy is the best" threads on here so disheartening.

None of these can protect your mind or actual life from the potential shenanigans a one-night stand with the wrong person can open you up to long-term, and this goes for men and ladies alike.

When sex is looked at holistically, it's easy to see how a lot of us are doing it wrong. As a woman, it is easy for me to understand the importance of why I have to be selective with a sex partner. I just don't understand why men don't see it that way as well.

When a man is involved in lovemaking, he literally shoots a part of his lifeforce into or onto another person. It even seems to temporarily weaken some men in some instances and leaves him physically and mentally vulnerable.

So, when a man willingly gives his lifeforce to a woman he would call a ho, thot, or whatever other monikers are used these days, it reflects on him as well; society has just managed to hide the irrationality of these actions when it comes to men.

A woman he might not even deem worthy enough of his love, resources or energy is somehow though worthy of access to his seed (and, in essence, all the time and energy it took his own body to produce it)...why are many men not taught to value and protect their own virility and access to his genetic material? If I had a son, I'd teach him to be stingy as hell with his body and seed, just as I would as a daughter lol.

I digress, though - this isn't a gender issue. Ladies and gentlemen equally ought to be mindful of with whom they are being intimate in those younger years.

Like another poster said earlier in the thread, society is weird when it comes to sex. On the one hand, we'll preach that sex isn't everything. But on the other hand, it's what you get judged by. So to address the bolded, men don't look at sex that way because when it comes to how we're viewed by others, the more sex you're having, the better.

Sleeping with as many women as you can (or at least the appearance of doing so) is a badge of honor, or at least isn't seen in as negative a light as it is for women sleeping around with as many men as she can. More importantly, not having any sex for a significant length of time will at least get a side eye from a lot of people. People will wonder what's wrong with such a man (is he ugly? Broke? Socially awkward? Gay?). We readily clown men who aren't getting any on a regular basis.

I agree that men should be pickier than we are about our partners, for a whole host of reasons. But I think society as a whole will have to shift its mindset on how we judge men when it comes to sex as a prerequisite for that happening.

 

[Serious]

If you are happy with your life decisions then do it really matter?

you trying tell us something

 

[Serious]

The problem with women is a blatant dishonesty

A guy will cheat for example and admit its fukked up , whatever reason he gives i.e bytch was fine he was drunk , all the time he was fukking her he was thinking about wifey etc .... but he will still admit he was wrong and fukked up

Your typical woman will never admit she was fukked up , she will always try and rationalise her behaviour “ i wasnt getting enough attention “ etc ... and what makes it worse they will never admit what they done is foul

Even when i was doing foul shyt , even well fully knowing i wasnt going t stop i never gave excuses , “ yeah im fukked “

And thats the attitude of most men to be honest , but these scumbag women are a joke

Believe me or not i dont really have a problem with a woman that acts foul , I have a problem with the woman that wont admit it

Don't even get me started on one of my ex's she never took accountability for shyt, but would try flip the slightest infraction I might have done, like not immediately calling her back.

She was one those ultra feminist too...

I'm all for women having equitable treatment, but when women try to have these one-sided relationships where they're never accountable for shyt, can't be called out for their bs or double standards, I'm out.


That shyt isnt cute nor cool. Since dealing with her, I've learned how women will "cheat" justify it and never really consider it as cheating, because they felt some type of way.

You live and learn though.

 

[Matriarchy Refugee]

It's a dumb tweet

So sleeping around in your 30s 40s doesn't have any consequences?

Everything u do has consequences

Brushing your teeth has consequences


And people really acting like the Bih sad something deep

Exactly u dumb fukk

Yea you missed the point.

Being triggered will do that to ya

 

[The Fade]

Hypersexuality = Cysts and polyps in the uterus

Not paying for a wedding so my dikk can touch that

 

[mag357]

Lol so they're mad because we know how to shut the fukk up?

Facts
..
Underrated comment

 

[ThaEruditious]

Hypersexuality = Cysts and polyps in the uterus

Not paying for a wedding so my dikk can touch that

 

[Elle Driver]

you trying tell us something

Yeah, be happy being a hoe.

 

[Columbo]

Women wanna think theyre entitled to do whatever they want with their bodies. My ex i just broke up with was talking about hooks ups and i asked her would she want her daughter living like that someday? Then i asked her why would it be ok for her to live like that

I kept her safe for 3 years but shes just a miserable selfish person and i am clear from my responsibility. I know whats gonna happen with her and i tried so hard to save her, only reason why i held on for so long

 

[Taadow]

I agree,

However, most men wont be cool with that history and that's something to consider if a woman wants to start a family. Men will see women two ways:

A. someone to sleep with a few times
B. Someone to commit to

I have respect for women that can commit to the ho lifestyle and realize that they will never get a white wedding dress and kids and a loving husband and they've made their peace with that. We however have a lot of half way hoes. They want to be woman A and woman B. It wont work unless they're okay with settling down with a simp and hiding their past. These are the consequences to sleeping around. Whether you like it or not, men AND women have a hard time committing to someone who has slept around.

 

[Taadow]

I just don't understand why men don't see it that way as well.

When a man is involved in lovemaking, he literally shoots a part of his lifeforce into or onto another person. It even seems to temporarily weaken some men in some instances and leaves him physically and mentally vulnerable.

So, when a man willingly gives his lifeforce to a woman he would call a ho, thot, or whatever other monikers are used these days, it reflects on him as well; society has just managed to hide the irrationality of these actions when it comes to men.

A woman he might not even deem worthy enough of his love, resources or energy is somehow though worthy of access to his seed (and, in essence, all the time and energy it took his own body to produce it)...why are many men not taught to value and protect their own virility and access to his genetic material? If I had a son, I'd teach him to be stingy as hell with his body and seed, just as I would as a daughter lol.

I can help with this.

Boys are generally not "taught" anything about sex.

Boys do not really learn that they carry "lifeforce" until chit get way real; we learn it to
be this burden we have to purge from ourselves so we don't go crazy.

Men re not taught to "value and protect" anything about our being...we are here to be in service
and to give ourselves away. Sex is just one chamber of that. (Sidebar: which is why we aren't
generally introduced to sex as "lovemaking") Daughters are taught these things because their
sexuality is valuable, Sons' sexuality is not.