Anyone else on the coli have no desire to have kids?

[hostsamurai]

Nope.
I know this isn't a popular opinion but I legit hate young children. They're loud, inconsiderate, often unclean, annoying. I don't want to be around any kids or even talk about any kids. Maybe that could change, and I would have a change of perspective if I had a child of my own. But I'm not willing to take that 18 year financial hit to find out.

So... do I have a desire for children? Hell no.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

If I have kids cool… if I don’t cool. It’s not some goal or life purpose for me to have children.

That’s kinda where I’m at with it. I don’t really give a shyt either way. The annoying thing is family and friends constantly harassing my girl and I about it.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

I'm an uncle too. I'm good on having kids of my own

But it's looking like I'm the only one in the family that can continue the bloodline

Kinda feel bad but I don't wanna be a dad like that

 

[RickyDiBiase]

majority of you would make horrible parents so its not much of a loss

 

[JasoRockStar]

I want kids one day. But I feel like they aren't for everyone and that you can find fulfillment in your life in various other ways.

Personally, I feel like every person should be actively helping others in their community and family. Assist the children that already exist.


What are you writing though? Are you an author too?

 

[Neuromancer]

I want kids one day. But I feel like they aren't for everyone and that you can find fulfillment in your life in various other ways.

Personally, I feel like every person should be actively helping others in their community and family. Assist the children that already exist.


What are you writing though? Are you an author too?

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[invalid]

I actually have a desire to have children (sons) but the 2nd class space in which black people occupy in this country, I have no desire for my children to be born into or confined within.

If I'm to have "black" children, it would only come if I have the means to raise them outside of the US.

I love my people but I think we're done. And I don't want to bring children into this mess.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

The last time this thread was made it went on for pages

 

[Mike18jj]

My girl in college had a miscarriage, I was there for her when it happened and I felt sorry, but I'm glad it didn't happened.

I'm not ready now I damn sure wasn't ready 8 years ago.

 

[DaKidFromNoWhere]

If it happens it happens if not I am cool.
I never prayed much but one always was "Give me a family or nothing at all."
The way this world is and going I would be petrified raising my children.
I fear for my nieces and nephews future as it is.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

At the moment i feel the same, it could change but right now? Im good

 

[boogers]

as someone who was beaten as a kid id be too scared i'd end up hitting my own kids

and honestly this planet is going to be a flaming ball of shyt in about 20 years, why bring a life into that

 

[J Money]

I'd love to have kids and a big beautiful family but in this current environment with the way others raise their kids makes me very wary

 

[Software]

Always found myself of the mindset of "If they come, they come... and be thankful/ grateful" but, over time, I've come to the realization that I may not be built for parenthood.

This realization may trickle to the child/ children in me not being a good parent.

Ironically, many of my friends believe I'd be a great father though.

Many people tell me this too.

Ironically the fact yall think so hard about having kids means you will probably make good parents. Bad parents typically have kids and make no plans on how they will raise them...

 

[IllNameMyselfLater]

I don't really want kids. I like having free time, disposable income and the ability to get up and go when I feel like it. With all that being said if the right woman came along, my mind could be changed. As of right now though