women will always have their own opinion of a man, that is separate and most likely different from yours. of course men try to talk down on whoever they feel threatened by, this is natural.
but women are not fooled by that tactic, if anything it backfires. she has her own game she is playing and she will move with her own interests in mind. no matter how badly you want them to judge men based on your conveniently narrow criteria that favors you, they won't do it. only move is to have true self belief and not be threatened by competition by knowing you can always get someone else.
attempts to control them with psychological manipulation will more than likely work against you. keep a cool head.
how would you handle this situation with your girl obviously lusting after a cac in front of you? he played it mostly cool, but you could tell he was frustrated.