Anybody have any success with OKCupid?

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Thats the problem why you're having no success. You're equating ONLINE INTERACTION with REAL LIFE interaction

In real life you can start a convo from anyplace. "Where are you headed?" "Just coming back from work?" "Do you know where the mall is?"

What questions you gonna ask online? "Ummm uhhh I like Pink Floyd too"

You're gonna look boring and uninteresting, and get your message deleted. Its funny cause the same girl who'll delete your message online would be happy to exchange numbers with you in person. That's the nature of the beast of online dating

You make it seem like I'm trolling girls. I only copy and paste the opening message to get them interested, then ask more questions unique to that person. I've gotten tons of numbers and actually been in a relationship from that site. Don't blame me cause you can't play the online dating game right

I'm not blaming or hating on you. I just don't care about online dating at all and the game frustrates me to no end. I just don't play it.

 

[Dwolf]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/anybody-have-any-success-with-okcupid.157988/page-4#post-5895284

You just kind of know most of the time...sometimes the formatting is all off, too, cause it got messed up while copy/pasting lol

I read that and you said you ignored them. Why is that? maybe he was trying to start a convo with you.....

 

[Remote]

If being yourself worked you wouldn't be online dating to begin with.

Wow. LOL.
Burn, huh!

Hahaha.
Well look man. I'm single. I'm taking a lot of L's right now. And honestly, it sucks. But I can't look myself in the mirror if I'm trying to game a woman on some shyt that isn't who I am.

That's not some cheesy cornball shyt. That's just how I sincerely feel. If I gotta take L's for the next 10 years, that's just how it's gonna be.

 

[Desirous]

I read that and you said you ignored them. Why is that? maybe he was trying to start a convo with you.....

When it's an obvious copy/paste it just seems disingenuous to me...and I get turned off.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Thats the problem why you're having no success. You're equating ONLINE INTERACTION with REAL LIFE interaction

In real life you can start a convo from anyplace. "Where are you headed?" "Just coming back from work?" "Do you know where the mall is?"

What questions you gonna ask online? "Ummm uhhh I like Pink Floyd too"

You're gonna look boring and uninteresting, and get your message deleted. Its funny cause the same girl who'll delete your message online would be happy to exchange numbers with you in person. That's the nature of the beast of online dating

You make it seem like I'm trolling girls. I only copy and paste the opening message to get them interested, then ask more questions unique to that person. I've gotten tons of numbers and actually been in a relationship from that site. Don't blame me cause you can't play the online dating game right

I wonder what kind of girls he's pulling?......quality over quantity, I would hope.

 

[Dwolf]

@innocentdevil up in here posing it up for the nerds!

Fixed

 

[innocentdevil]

It's luck and chance to actually find someone and have a connection with them online AND that connection has to carry over to real life...the good thing about online dating is you have lots of choice to have conversations or meet up with people...I'm very thankful to have had more good experience in online dating than bad

 

[observe]

Since nobody is having any luck on OKC, lets all just fukk eachother in this thread

 

[Dwolf]

When it's an obvious copy/paste it just seems disingenuous to me...and I get turned off.

So whats not a copy/paste msg?

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Yeah i've met several females off that at one point. Thing is, they're all weirdos. Like I always wondered why an at least decent looking female in her 20's would have to resort to online dating, and I found out why. They either have goofy/awkward personalities, or they're so narcissistic and full of themselves, that they can't make any friends in real life.

 

[Desirous]

It's luck and chance to actually find someone and have a connection with them online AND that connection has to carry over to real life...the good thing about online dating is you have lots of choice to have conversations or meet up with people...I'm very thankful to have had more good experience in online dating than bad

THIS!

My preference is - have a convo and then meet asap - don't waste time trying to get to know someone too much online, cause you can meet in person and everything can go out the window.

 

[Dwolf]

It's luck and chance to actually find someone and have a connection with them online AND that connection has to carry over to real life...the good thing about online dating is you have lots of choice to have conversations or meet up with people...I'm very thankful to have had more good experience in online dating than bad

For women yes.... whole different animal for men.

 

[Desirous]

So whats not a copy/paste msg?

If you're actually referring to specific stuff on my profile...or, just say hi...don't try to relate to me with very general stuff you're spitting at every girl.

 

[Brofato]

@*F*U*N*E*R*A*L* There's a thing on the side, I forget the name of it but it lets you rate people on a scale of 1 to 5 stars. OkCupid is kinda tough but that shyt works wonders cause most people have the default of it set on send me a message when someone rates me 4 or higher, I think.

If you live in a big city it's a bonus cause the girls closest to you will mostly be cute or close enough. If you're not really a discerning man and just tryna get your shyt out there, rate all of them 5's but if not, you can rate the girls you like and see what pops.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Since nobody is having any luck on OKC, lets all just fukk eachother in this thread

nah, we'll let you go fukk your burning man going, patchouli smelling women that seem so fond of you