Anybody have any success with OKCupid?

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

HAVE THE BEST THUMBNAIL. Girl's get 300 messages a day, so she ain't gonna read your profile, a good thumbnail would make her reply

If I spend more time on the site, I average like 5 numbers a week


To be successful, its all about your mouthpiece.... in other words, textpiece

Real-life questions don't work online
You gotta ask a unique "out of the blue" question that catches a girl's attention. Copy and paste that question to every single girl you message
If you make a different question to every girl you message, you already lost

No offense, but this is really childish.

 

[observe]

How come every girl listens to indie rock and has been to burning man on okc? I feel like I'm supposed to be doing this stuff..

 

[UpAndComing]

No offense, but this is really childish.

Please explain how, I'm dying to know

 

[Remote]

@ cesspool!!! but for real, since I really did find an amazing man, I'd like to think of it more as finding a needle in a haystack....

.... but you have to have a plan. ..... and time.... and patience..... and a higher than normal tolerance for BS.....

No wonder I was about to say fukk it.

Done a few lunches, but nothing serious. Met some nice people, but not really what I want. I mean a lot of people in NY are about that city life...going out...wine every friday...and I'm not really built for that on a consistent basis.

It does take time. You're right.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

How come every girl listens to indie rock and has been to burning man on okc? I feel like I'm supposed to be doing this stuff..

Because you're in the Bay, breh.

Welcome to my pain living in Denver. All men rock climbed, snow boarded, into craft beer (ok with me, but it was home brewing obsessions).... I'm active, but I swear if I saw another man propelling off of a cliff....

 

[Desirous]

Know what else I hate? Dating profiles without pics. Like wtf? This isn't blind-date.com

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Please explain how, I'm dying to know

Copying and pasting a generic message to women on a website instead of coming up with an individualized response tailored to suit the interests of that person. And then doing it over and over again.

So basically, the game isn't even unique...it's copy and paste. I'm sorry if I see that as childish, but maybe that's because I'm knocking on 30's door.

That's something for the 18-24 set to do.

And people wonder why I talk shyt on online dating. Especially when people do stuff like this.

 

[Remote]

Copying and pasting a generic message to women on a website instead of coming up with an individualized response tailored to suit the interests of that person. And then doing it over and over again.

So basically, the game isn't even unique...it's copy and paste. I'm sorry if I see that as childish, but maybe that's because I'm knocking on 30's door.

That's something for the 18-24 set to do.

And people wonder why I talk shyt on online dating. Especially when people do stuff like this.

 

[Desirous]

Copying and pasting a generic message to women on a website instead of coming up with an individualized response tailored to suit the interests of that person.

So basically, the game isn't even unique...it's copy and paste. I'm sorry if I see that as childish, but maybe that's because I'm knocking on 30's door.

That's something for the 18-24 set to do.

And people wonder why I talk shyt on online dating. Especially when people do stuff like this.

Copy/pasting is the lamest shyt. I'd rather a guy just say "Hey - how are you?" or even just "hi" (if they don't want to spend the time writing more than that...but the guy I will be interested in will be the one that does want to spend the time cause that means he's at least interested in ME and not in whomever the bait happens to catch on that day) than copy/paste something - that's the most unoriginal thing.

 

[Dwolf]

Copying and pasting a generic message to women on a website instead of coming up with an individualized response tailored to suit the interests of that person. And then doing it over and over again.

So basically, the game isn't even unique...it's copy and paste. I'm sorry if I see that as childish, but maybe that's because I'm knocking on 30's door.

That's something for the 18-24 set to do.

And people wonder why I talk shyt on online dating. Especially when people do stuff like this.

Copy and paste msg, no one responds.

Creates tailored msg, gets no response.

What Im saying is, you can't win.

Copy/pasting is the lamest shyt. I'd rather a guy just say "Hey - how are you?" or even just "hi" (if they don't want to spend the time writing more than that...but the guy I will be interested in will be the one that does want to spend the time cause that means he's at least interested in ME and not in whomever the bait happens to catch on that day) than copy/paste something - that's the most unoriginal thing.

How do you even know is its copy and paste? Give me an example.....

 

[Remote]

Copy and paste msg, no one responds.

Creates tailored msg, gets no response.

What Im saying is, you can't win.


How do you even know is its copy and paste? Give me an example.....

Maybe not winning.
But I'd rather lose being myself than auto-dialing a bunch of girls with a generic greeting.

That's me though

 

[UpAndComing]

Copying and pasting a generic message to women on a website instead of coming up with an individualized response tailored to suit the interests of that person. And then doing it over and over again.

So basically, the game isn't even unique...it's copy and paste. I'm sorry if I see that as childish, but maybe that's because I'm knocking on 30's door.

That's something for the 18-24 set to do.

And people wonder why I talk shyt on online dating. Especially when people do stuff like this.

Thats the problem why you're having no success. You're equating ONLINE INTERACTION with REAL LIFE interaction

In real life you can start a convo from anyplace. "Where are you headed?" "Just coming back from work?" "Do you know where the mall is?"

What questions you gonna ask online? "Ummm uhhh I like Pink Floyd too"

You're gonna look boring and uninteresting, and get your message deleted. Its funny cause the same girl who'll delete your message online would be happy to exchange numbers with you in person. That's the nature of the beast of online dating

You make it seem like I'm trolling girls. I only copy and paste the opening message to get them interested, then ask more questions unique to that person. I've gotten tons of numbers and actually been in a relationship from that site. Don't blame me cause you can't play the online dating game right

 

[Desirous]

How do you even know is its copy and paste? Give me an example.....

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/anybody-have-any-success-with-okcupid.157988/page-4#post-5895284

You just kind of know most of the time...sometimes the formatting is all off, too, cause it got messed up while copy/pasting lol

 

[Dwolf]

Maybe not winning.
But I'd rather lose being myself than auto-dialing a bunch of girls with a generic greeting.

That's me though

If being yourself worked you wouldn't be online dating to begin with.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

@innocentdevil up in here showing love for the nerds!