Anxiety is real. One day we all gonna die. Does that scare anybody else

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Life (and ugly women) scary enough
 

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This is hilarious coming from someone with that username
It means like you come back as a different person. The world can be bad, and I mean, real bad, but this the only world we got
 

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The thought of not existing anymore and losing friends and loved ones gives me anxiety sometimes.

I just try my best to enjoy life while I’m still here and healthy. When I die, I just hope it’s not a long ordeal. The thought of being diagnosed with a terminal disease is terrifying to me.

My biggest goal in life is to just be remembered. I know that most people are unremarkable in the grand scheme of things, but it’s sad to think that most of us will be forgotten about within a few generations. It’s like a 2nd death in a way..
 

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Yes that shyt can cause crazy anxiety, hypo is just as bad. All bruhs need to get regular blood work done. Also us as black men need to stay on top of our blood pressure .
Yeah, my mom had Graves disease. Heart been fluttering and a nikka got winded walking 4 blocks the other day. shyts crazy. Generally I'm a healthy guy, or I was, but I've had bad anxiety on and off for years. This time feels different though.
 

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Everything must come to an end, that is the law of the universe. I don't sweat it because if it were any different that would not be natural.
 

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in general what’s crazy is I’m more “comfortable” with the notion of dying than I am with losing loved ones
Yes, and the parents leaving is a very very real fear of mine. Can’t imagine how painful it is. Or maybe it won’t be? I don’t know but the uncertainty is rough. That’s why I just call them Every week and be Grateful the loved ones are there
 

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The way I see it: what do you remember before you were born?

Probably nothing because you had no brain or senses yet. We were at peace before we became conscious (senses and brain).

That's basically where we're going when we pass. We're going to be at peace when our brain and senses stop working.

Remember: the universe was around much longer before we were born and will be around much longer afterwards. Life went on before we were here and life will go on afterwards.

The only experience we're going have as us right now as an individual is the the time we have now, so appreciate your loved ones while you and them are still here. Don't get too caught up in the grind and chasing things other people say are important.

Additionally, here's the thing: we don't know what we may come back as when our brain/senses of this current body pass away.

Appreciate this life as it is and try not to leave the planet worse because you may very well come back to earth one day (maybe after you live and die as a life form on another planet) as the person or thing you discriminated and sabotaged while you were here. Imagine if you hate the opposite sex and a certain race, pass a bunch of laws to hurt them but you come back as an ugly person of the opposite sex and race? If "we" ever come back to this planet, hopefully it'll be at a time when everything is better for everybody.

I say this as a religious person with Faith, but also making sure I understand the biology and physics as well.
 
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Op is correct, life is fragile. We should appreciate it and try to make the most of it, cut out the time wasting.
BUT death is nothing to fear. That should help cut down the anxiety.
"Death is no enemy of man; it is a friend who, when the work of life is done, just cuts the cord that binds the human boat to earth, that it may sail on smoother seas."
M.H.K. ch. 4
 

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im just trying to figure it all out and i think the longer i live the more understanding ill have. Life good or bad is a miracle and beautiful. i'm trying to get to heaven and it doesn't have to be perfect. Just got to reconcile everything I've been and the pull and pool is so strong. I'm content. Things will pop up here and there but hopefully the universe got a good script for me.
 
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