You and Spliff hit the nail on the head. With diet and exercise,
even if youre giving it your all as an beginning/intermediate bodybuilder its always a battle 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Dieting can definitely cause people to lapse and binge very easily, I see it in tons of individuals and I cant tell you how many of my brehs havent gotten what they could out of a cut because they couldnt manage it. i've definitely fukked a couple up myself not getting my macros right or going out and getting drunk and eating chicken tenders with my friends and shyt (
) and thats natural. People dont wanna restrict themselves. And theres a reason people fail to make weight so often in fight sports: cutting fukking sucks, people get cranky as fukk, depressed, lethargic... And those are trained, paid, often highly motivated athletes, not everyday people!
This is why i like some of what Marks Daily Apple has to say about food reward and such; i think its extremely relevant, especially in our current environment where hidden calories are everywhere, and it can be very different to manage your macronutrient intake unless you are handling the numbers YOURSELF.