How many black people are actually raised in Carlton type households though? But you are right in the fact that cats need to stop being ashamed of having help. That's the whole fukking point of your parents having to grind and make it. It's so your children don't have to struggle. We so backwards at times it's ridiculous
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Cacs have ZERO problem tellin mufukkaz how their parents/grandparents left this, that, and the 3rd to them so they can start off their adult lives with something. But us?
. It's insecurity like a mufukka. Too much "we black, we supposed to be poor" ass mentality nikkaz out here. You not black enough if you weren't broke type shyt. Bozo shyt.
But there are a lot of upper middle class black families now. shyt, I know my sons are growing up as upper middle class nikkas. And we live in an area with a lot of similar type black families too. Know better, do better. But stop being ashamed of having some advantages. That's what your parents worked for nikkaz! And if they didn't, you do it so your kids don't!
Beyond stupid and retarded. Looking goofy as hell. Hate seeing kids in my area do it. Thankfully those types are few and far between because the parents know better.