did you or did you not admit that you were disturbed by black woman hating mentality you came across on thecoli?
Didn't I say that openly in the last thread. I've said that plenty of times before.
did you or did you not say it made you look at black men offline differently?
I specifically stated that when I see or pass by black men I don't know, I wonder if they secretly feel the same way that Tommy Sotomayor and people like you feel about me simply because I am a black woman. It makes me weary because they might be like you without know anything about me personally.
did you or did you not say you wouldn't be surprised if you ended up with a white dude?
I NEVER said that shyt. I've never even dated a white guy in my 27/28 years of life; therefore, that would be a surprise to me. I would never say anything like that nor does it even make sense. If anything, I would have said that I would probably end up married to an African or foreign black guys because that is all I seem to date.
I DO remember saying that my family always thought that I would be the type to date white guys and that they wouldn't be surprised if I dated one.
now, last time we revisited this, you claimed you just said you would "Date out" -- well fine, if that's all you'll admit to, okay. tell me what does dating out mean? cus we all know 9/10 when black women talk about dating out, they don't mean running to indian or asian men.
Finally, I did say I wouldn't close myself off to dating out if things didn't work out with my current boyfriend (which is what I said I wanted), but how in the hell would I know what he would be. I have NEVER chased a man or asked one out, and I NEVER will so it would depend on who it was and whether I was attracted to the person who approached me. Believe it or not, I DO find some asian men attractive (especially if they actually workout). I prefer ethnic looking men; therefore, he would probably be latino (black or white) or some other ethnic variety. I have had two white guys seriously try to date me and I didn't date either because I was not attracted to them like that.